Do you guys like coming out!?

[Dimentio]

Well in college i will talk about it in front of anyone but if you ask if i am gay i will say no XD But if you ask about girl parts and guys and stuff, I make it fairly obvious ;) Well anyway i told my mum, Aunt, Kelsey and a few other friends, Then whoever fount out and Facebook is an obvious way to find out but still family does not know and my mum wants me to tell everyone in any way possible and after her asking all day Christmas to come out she asked just to tell Jess and i still refused but she told her anyway, And i know my sis is okay with it though we did not talk but i don't like telling people dead on, I'd rather it be a casual conversation about how hot Josh Hutcherson was in his last movie or about my Boyfriend who i still need to have, I just feel like a freak and special like "HEY GUYS! I'm a freak but still love me!" I don't see the need to tell people as straight people don't say come out as straight they just carry on with their lives.
So yeah what is your views on coming out!? Mine was telling people closest to me so it was easier now i don't see the point in telling anyone and it just makes me cry XD

[Gandalf]

I don't particularly enjoy "coming out" I dont really do it to be fair. I told one person ages ago and it leaked. My brain malfunctioning has hinted to my family so unfortunately I can't really relate in practice.

I do understand though that being asked would be frustrating and awkward. It's basically people saying "DO YOU LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH MEN?!" which could often be inappropriate or embarrassing depending on the situation.

My two pence.

[kye.]

Bleh, I don't think I will ever come out lol Don't know why...I'm scared I guess. It will be a very lonely journey, but I'll see where it takes me.

[Dimentio]

Kye being 18 and not having some people know isn't good like it adds so much stress and depression to you, And once i told my bestie, mum and aunt, I felt like a weight had lifted and felt free!
But glad you agree with me Ben :)

[teen.jpg]

I've only told 2 people, and am planning on telling all of my close friends.

At first, it's kind of hard to even try and say it to people, but the reactions make you feel a hell of alot better. Trust me, I believe it's worth it. ;)

[deanbrodi]

I think coming out can be the most dangerous thing to do, because there are so many haters. I'm not out 'cos none of my family know any gay people, & dad hates gay.

[darkie]

I've told a few friends about me being bi and they're really accepting of it, and I was pleasantly surprised that one friend told me that she was bi as well. Sadly, though, I trusted a wrong person about this secret and they've leaked it to everyone in our year level, so whatever. That time was really really stressful and they leaked the info in a really awful and below-the-belt way, but then it's positive too, since I found out who are my friends, no matter how cheesy that sounds, those people who didn't mind.

If my parents knew though, they would surely go crazy. They're sorta homophobic so that's a bit of a problem.

[Eth_94123]

Coming out was the best thing I ever did :)

[Abyssal Echo]

I have to agree with Ethan comming out was the best thing I ever did. now I can be me :)

[Shadow]

I'm still closeted. I have told a few people, but I am not fully open about it just yet.

[DerBear]

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