This is really weird :P

[Aidoon123]

Ok how do I start this? I am always being called gay,constantly, by everyone!! My sisters call me gay, my friends call me gay, my girlfriend and her friends call me gay and people who barely know me call me gay! It used to upset me but now I kinda find it funny. I guess what I am saying is... why? If I have a girlfriend and I ' make out ' with her all the time and her friends still call me gay. My friends know I have this girlfriend and they still call me gay. Are they just teasing? I guess maybe its because I don't like sport ( except swimming ) I am an actor. I love to sing, but I don't go around complimenting guys asses or go to these musicals or go clothes shopping with ' the girls ' I don't know what it is. What I'm basically asking is why do they do this? I just laugh about it now but it still deep down bugs me a little. What can I do to get these people off my back :what:

[Skyline]

I think that they are just teasing you because you don't really like "manly" things. i wouldn't let it get to you..

[Dimentio]

I know the problem XD You hate sports but like swimming so guys in shorts or speedos, I know there is girls in bikkins but the other things show why they think it is guys, So with the swimming and adding to that singing and acting, Their not the most manliest of things and if you are not manly/butch looking that is also why they will call you it, I hope they calm down on it though :)

[Lost in the Echo]

I think that they are just teasing you because you don't really like "manly" things. i wouldn't let it get to you..

Yeah, I agree with this. ^

They're just teasing you. If it really bugs you though, then let them know it does.
If you just go along with it, and pretend it doesn't bother you, then they have no way of knowing it truly does bother you.
So just tell them you don't like it when they call you gay.

[dan8854]

Best is to ignore it. Eventually they'll lose interest and move on to someone else.

[ChickenCasseroleYum]

Grrr, get new friends. Just kidding -.- but, yes, I guess they're just teasing you. Maybe you could try ^^ burning them with things they're sensitive about. Like maybe if they have a giant mole or yellow teeth or something. Or if you're confident you could play along with them because that's what guys in my school do. Like if one gets called gay, he'll just be like 'omg yes I love huge c*ck blah blah'. Although, that last one will probably make your situation worse. Tbh I think the best option is to just ignore it and keep laughing with them.

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They're just messin around with you lol my best friend and I call each other gay (among many other things) all the time lol which is perfect since I am bisexual I get to say extremely homosexual things back xD but they are just messin around with you :) don't take it personally :)

[kye.]

Ok how do I start this? I am always being called gay,constantly, by everyone!! My sisters call me gay, my friends call me gay, my girlfriend and her friends call me gay and people who barely know me call me gay! It used to upset me but now I kinda find it funny. I guess what I am saying is... why? If I have a girlfriend and I ' make out ' with her all the time and her friends still call me gay. My friends know I have this girlfriend and they still call me gay. Are they just teasing? I guess maybe its because I don't like sport ( except swimming ) I am an actor. I love to sing, but I don't go around complimenting guys asses or go to these musicals or go clothes shopping with ' the girls ' I don't know what it is. What I'm basically asking is why do they do this? I just laugh about it now but it still deep down bugs me a little. What can I do to get these people off my back :what:

It seems to me like you are or were the class clown. People like joking with you because you're a fun person and you don't show hatred when being called gay. They believe it doesn't bother you so they'll continue, the only way to stop is to tell them directly that it's enough, they know you're straight but like playing with you.

[Eth_94123]

They are teasing you just ignore them xD