Cant Tell If Im Gay, And I Dont Want To Be!

[Seattle-WA-Roxx]

Here are the reasons why im confused:
*Ive Watched Gay and Staight Porn B4 but I prefer Gay
*I have a GF and had several B4
*I picture myself married to a Woman in the future
*Ive been going out with my GF for over a year now
*I find myself at the beach looking at Guys over Girls
*I get all weird around attractive guys
*I have a gayish voice

WILL SOMEBODY PLZ HELLP!!!!!

Im a 14 year old boy BTW

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, depending on where you are in puberty, your hormones are probably raging, and making you feel this way.

If you feel happy with being with your girlfriend, then you're definitely not gay.

From what you said, it seems like you're bi-curious, which basically means you have physical and emotional attraction to the opposite gender, and have minimal or no emotional attraction to the same gender, but you have physical attraction to the same gender.

There is just a slight difference between "Bi-sexual" and "Bi-curious", but it sounds like you're bi-curious though.

But yeah, you're definitely not gay, probably bi-curious though.

Either way, who cares?
Labels are just labels, they don't really mean anything.
If you're happy with the relationship you're in with your gf, then that's all that matters. :)

[Noirtier]

Honestly, to me it just sounds like you're hormones are raging and you're curious. Almost all guys go through this around this age, during puberty, and it's completely normal to feel this way. I don't think you're gay, I honestly don't think you're even bi. A lot of straight guys watch gay porn, but that doesn't make them gay--porn is porn, and in the end all of it is meant to be erotic and turn people on. The fact that you have a girlfriend, have had several in the past, and seem to be happy with them is a big indicator that you're probably straight. Also the fact that you can only see yourself in a relationship with a woman, and not a man, shows that you don't seem to really have an emotional attraction to guys, which is a major part of your sexual orientation. You look at guys because you're curious, and your hormones are raging. And having a "gayish voice" doesn't mean squat about your sexual orientation. You can be the straightest sounding person and be gay, or the gayest sounding person and be straight. Honestly, I think that it will pass once you start getting out of puberty. Just focus on your girlfriend and don't worry about this sexuality or that sexuality, like Bo said in the end it's just a label.

[Aidoon123]

Its all about the stupid horomones! Loads of straight guys watch Gay porn because its exciting and the acting ( in general ) is far better :) Well if you have been with your girlfriend for over a year and truly like / love her then you shouldn't be too worried. Who doesn't admire a hot guy on the beach? Although girls in their bikinis are... yum! Everyone gets weird around attractive people. I know i would get weird if Ashton Kutcher walked up to me, same with Mila Kunis or Eva Longoria hehe! As for the voice, its just puberty. The straightest guy in the world could have the highest pitch voice. Do not worry. In a few years you will know who you are and be happy!

[Dimentio]

Okay i just answered another thread about you coincidentally but this has settled it XD Yeah i am certainly sure you are gay now, Or it is just your hormones like the others have said because i know most straight guys do certain gay things or watch gay porn cause of hormones and testing and boredom tons of reasons, If it is gay or straight just accept it, That is the easiest way :)

[aldabanana]

I'm pretty sure it's just hormones lol...

[Jen Jones]

it seems like you might be bi, but this isn't enough info

[qwertygirl]

This is could just be hormones, but if you have found yourself liking a boy, then you could very well be bisexual. But if you only find guys kind of attractive, then I think that you could be experiencing some curiosity.

[teen.jpg]

Here are the reasons why im confused:
*Ive Watched Gay and Staight Porn B4 but I prefer Gay
*I have a GF and had several B4
*I picture myself married to a Woman in the future
*Ive been going out with my GF for over a year now
*I find myself at the beach looking at Guys over Girls
*I get all weird around attractive guys
*I have a gayish voice

WILL SOMEBODY PLZ HELLP!!!!!

Im a 14 year old boy BTW

* Who cares, anyone can watch any kind of porn.
* Irrelevant to the "problem"
* ALSO Irrelevant
* Who says you aren't curious?
* Well, of course you do if you find them attractive :rolleyes:
* What is that supposed to mean?


If you were gay, you would know it. Nobody here can tell you what you are.

[ackmedsgirl666]

probably just hormones
your 14 your young your still developing
dont sweat it............
just go with whatever you believe
if you know your sexually and emotionally attracted to girls stick with that
go with whatever makes you happy
just because you check out guys or find them attractive doesnt make you gay
as long as your not sexually attracted to them
its just hormones it will eventually if ever go away

[Lovelife090994]

Sounds to me like a case of hormones. At 14 you are a hormonal machine. The curiosity on the same sex is normal. Care to email about it?

[PinkFloyd]

*Ive Watched Gay and Staight Porn B4 but I prefer Gay Some strait people watch gay porn.
*I have a GF and had several B4
*I picture myself married to a Woman in the future
*Ive been going out with my GF for over a year now
*I find myself at the beach looking at Guys over Girls Your hormones are raging. It's normal
*I get all weird around attractive guys Again, your hormones are raging.
*I have a gayish voice That means NOTHING.

It doesn't sound like you're gay at all, man. :)

[ExhibitG]

i was exactly like you when i was 14. i know it's really tough, and you're probably going to have a stressful few years ahead of you. i never wanted to be bisexual (or gay) and i still don't particularly like it, but it's a part of me and i'm just starting to be comfortable in my own skin. you may turn out bi or gay, but please just hang in there and try your best to just let fate take its course.

[Dunce]

First you need to get it out of your head that you don't want to be gay, only then you'll know.
People get turned on by all kinds of porn. Some straight people like gay, some gay people like straight. It's sex, it's going to turn you on to some extent no matter who's having it.
Sounds like you're curious, but you could be physically attracted to men. Either that or you could be comparing yourself to them. To me you sound bi, but only you know. Just be open to whatever you are, if you fight it you'll never know for sure.

[ImAJock]

youre young and hormones are raging. youll be attracted to about anything. its fairly normal. its a choice that you make to be gay or not. dont do it!

[Burn007]

Dont worry :D If u always think of you like a Straight guy u will be....