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mobile
October 16th, 2007, 01:26 PM
Well I broke up with this girl about 4 months ago now, but I still really like her. She doesnt have feelings like that for me anymore, and she got over me about 1 month after we broke up I think. We were going to take a break but we never did get back togethor, as she moved on.

She is now dating this 17 year old guy and they are getting along great, and I hate just being 'good friends' with her and having to watch her with this new guy. I doubt we will ever have something again, even though she said we had the best relationship shed ever had, but should I tell her I like her? Or just leave things how they are so i dont risk our friendship being ruined.

Im stuck :( all replies apreciated

Maverick
October 16th, 2007, 01:55 PM
You should try and accept the fact that you won't be with her. You could say something but then you risk losing her as a friend. So I say you should just accept the fact that she's only going to be a friend so you don't lose her completely.

byee
October 16th, 2007, 11:09 PM
Ahh, regret. Get used to it. Learn from it. Either to more carefully evaluate the value of someone to you while you still have them, or when their gone, to more carefully remember why they're gone in the first place. Memory paints in soft pastels, often those things that drove us crazy seem less impressive with the passage of time. Don't confuse your lonliness with nostalgia. There must be a reason why you broke up with her.

If she's seeing someone happily, there's a better chance that your admission of your feelings for her will cause more harm than good. If they break up, that's a diff story.

Cast your line in another part of the pond, find someone else.