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Losing Sanity79
December 24th, 2012, 09:44 PM
Now, I know what you might say... "You will find the perfect person.", or, "The right person is right around the corner."
Well? Sorry, no. I don't think I will ever find "that person." Everyone I talk to and befriend, doesn't see me like that. They all say that we need to be friends and nothing more.
I feel that it is a personal problem. It seems like I am to friendly and get into that zone of friendship that you can't leave. Haha! Weird? Right? Yes...
Please help me... I am lost and distraught over this matter.
Lost in the Echo
December 24th, 2012, 09:50 PM
Relax, you're only 15. You have all the time in the world to find your soulmate.
Don't stress over something like this, just be patient.
Let whatever happens, happen.
One day you will find the right person for you.
You meet new people everyday. So there's a good chance you'll one day meet someone similar to you, with similar interests.
So yeah, don't worry, you'll find the right person.
Just don't stress over something like this.
Just go with the flow.
Troy35216
December 24th, 2012, 09:52 PM
the dreaded friend zone. that's where i am always banished to. good luck
Noirtier
December 24th, 2012, 09:53 PM
Now, I know what you might say... "You will find the perfect person.", or, "The right person is right around the corner."
Well? Sorry, no. I don't think I will ever find "that person." Everyone I talk to and befriend, doesn't see me like that. They all say that we need to be friends and nothing more.
I feel that it is a personal problem. It seems like I am to friendly and get into that zone of friendship that you can't leave. Haha! Weird? Right? Yes...
Please help me... I am lost and distraught over this matter.
I'm sorry, but...
>is 15 years old
>says that they will never find someone who will like them romantically.
You're young. You have your entire life ahead of you to find someone who will love you for you. Don't go around searching for it every second of your life, don't make that your sole intention. Just be friendly and be yourself, and you'll find that person when the time comes. I didn't even start dating until I was your age. I know people who didn't start dating until even later. You're not the only person, and really, you're making it all harder than it needs to be by getting yourself down about it when really, you could be putting yourself out there and having fun and being yourself which will make it a hell of a lot easier to find someone who will like you for you and want to be with you. I'm not going to say it's right around the corner, because they may be a few years down the road. But that's no reason to give up and sulk the rest of your life. Hell, it's all the more reason to enjoy the time you have now, and just be you.
Abyssal Echo
December 24th, 2012, 09:55 PM
Nah dude I'm not gunna tell ya that u'll find perfect person. I will tell ya that ur not alone. I've had a number of bf this year and I always hear the same bs ur nice ur cute bla bla but always ends the same they just wanna be friends. Understand how ya feel so, if u need someone to talk to send me a PM and we'll go from there
Losing Sanity79
December 24th, 2012, 10:06 PM
Noirtier...
In all honesty, I am not "sulking" and also, I have not given up on life.
Thank you for you help though.
AuthorX303720
December 25th, 2012, 12:21 AM
Listen Dude, Let me come out straight.... one day you will find true love. Over the summer I had found out that the girl across the street that I had a crush on was actually a mutual relationship. So maybe the girl that you have a crush on is probably a mural relationship. If u need help PM or message me. I can help you thru this -Sid
believable
December 25th, 2012, 10:26 PM
There are plenty of people who feel this way. My recommendation is focus on getting into college. Since you will most likely get to chose the college you want to go to, then there will be people who like the same things as you.
Steve Jobs
December 28th, 2012, 02:28 AM
the dreaded friend zone. that's where i am always banished to. good luck
story of my life
anyone50
December 28th, 2012, 05:32 PM
These are the tuffest questions to give advice on because all we know is what you say and nothing about the other side so here goes. There's nothing wrong in having too many friends of the oppisite sex but once you find you have hit a wall with a particular girl and she says let's just keep it friends what she is really saying is the chemistry isn't there. There's a saying that most girls decide in the first few min of meeting a guy she has already decided if they want to be more than friends and as a girl i can tell you it's only partially true. When i was single there were guys i would meet that i knew instantly if the chance came up i would like to date them but more often than not it was much more subtle and influnced by his approch and what he said more than how he dressed and how he looked and talking to my girlfriends most of them agree. if you feel that it is a personal problem like you stated in your post maybe thats a good place to start by looking at yourself and the way you approch these girls. Just as an example not saying this is your proplem but nothing turns a girl off more than bad hygiene or lack of self cofidence is another. and while i hate the social class system you find in most schools it's alive and well and looks like it's never going to change so if it's not you maybe it's the girls you approach. sorry so long hope this helps
MrDaniel2K13
December 28th, 2012, 06:12 PM
Just relax dude
CharlieFinley
December 29th, 2012, 02:55 AM
Nobody finds the "perfect" person. It's a myth. It sucks to suck, but at least everyone else sucks, too. That said, love is awesome. Don't give up.
hscott729
December 29th, 2012, 09:35 AM
dude im in the same position as you, seriously, im friends with loads of girls, but thats just it, friends. i have had a reltionship in the past, but... i dint really like the girl and was just using her tbh, and i feel really bad for that :/
and one thing i really really want, which is what i think you want, is a genuine honest relationship with someone....
good luck to you anyway :P
Thizzy
December 29th, 2012, 03:26 PM
You're only 15 years old. When i was your age i thought the same. I was 17, almost 18, when i got my first relationship (it last for almost 12 months and my first relationship just sucked because he lied about almost everything). I'm 19 right now and i've found the right guy :3 I'm sure you will too! Because there are so many different people in the world, it's allmost unthinkable that there is no one for you =]
chillguy1234
December 30th, 2012, 08:19 AM
I have the same problem just relax and let things happen, u usually find someone when u least expect it
Avenida105
December 31st, 2012, 02:35 AM
Well my love story is pretty sadistic but here it goes, the first girl and the only I have loved for about 3 years, turned out to be really religious and I was going to ask her out and her sister was like that's awesome it would be so cool if you guys went out but you know her...whenever she finds out a guy likes her she starts backing. So I tried to move on, I liked this girl who only wanted to be friends, the third girl I like turned out to be extremely shallow for she wants a "good looking" guy to ask her out for formal and the I stared gaining interest in this girl and first day we talk...she has a boyfriend. I have the same problem but I always tell myself, it will happen when it has to happen.
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