frustrating times finding out what i am

[DarkxChochan]

so i seem to go back and forth (one week i'll think i'm straight and the next i'm gay)
btw i'm a virgin and haven't dated anyone yet :/
another problem is that i'm pretty damn shy around other ppl.
tired of those inner conflicts...it's hard to put a label on yourself you know?
any tips?

[The_Survivor]

Finding out who you are can be a complicated situation. Some people automatically know they are "gay" or "straight" however, for others, it takes a little bit to truly find yourself!

You should really think about who you are attracted to. In other words, do you get "hard" when you are around guys or girls? Do you get "hard" when you are in the locker room?

Once you have developed who you think you are attracted to, I would suggest experimenting with a friend. This will help you figure out what you like.

You could also look at porn and see what you like best.

So this is my opinion. Other people may have another idea.

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, which gender are you attracted to?
If you feel constant confusion about your sexuality, then I recommend you wait until you've finished puberty, then you should be able to label yourself, as your hormones will have settled by then.

Also, don't feel like you need to label yourself, just go with the flow.
You have absolutely no control over what your orientation is, so why stress over it?

[DarkxChochan]

well...i have an anxiety disorder so that's why i worry about it a lot....
but thanks :)

[Straya]

As much as you may want to label yourself right now you might not be able to yet and only waiting it out till your hormones settle will allow you to discover where you sit

[ChickenCasseroleYum]

oh well one night I sat alone in bed, confused and conflicted just like you. Then I spent the next hour or so just reflecting upon myself and thinking really hard and not judging myself and then suddenly, I had the answer. G-A-Y GAAAAAAAAY.

[wallflower]

I think u r bi