Guy Friend question

[funyun4282]

One of my guy friends who I was close with while growing up is making advances towards me. Sexually. I have a BF and he doesnt seeme to get the hint. What else can i do?

[Taryn98]

Guys never get the hint. You need to be totally direct with him. Make it clear you have a bf and are not interested in him like that. He may still try to get you to breakup with your bf though. Most guys can't ever go back to just being friends if they have become interested in you. Putting distance between you might help as.well.

[funyun4282]

Ive tried that. Im trying not to be mean to him and also trying not to have my BF talk to him.

[Taryn98]

If he doesn't respect what you feel or what you have said to him then maybe he's not a good friend after all. He needs to accept your boundaries or not be friends anymore.

[StoppingTime]

Puberty for Girls :arrow: Relationships and Dating.

[Lost in the Echo]

If he doesn't respect what you feel or what you have said to him then maybe he's not a good friend after all. He needs to accept your boundaries or not be friends anymore.

Yep, this ^ is exactly right.

If he was a true friend, he would respect your wishes, and not be pressuring you into something you don't want to do.
You have a boyfriend, so he should leave you alone.

Honestly, this guy doesn't sound like a very good friend.
If he doesn't stop bothering you about sex, I suggest you stop being so nice to him.
There are certain boundaries you just don't cross, and right now he's crossing those boundaries.

You're in a relationship, he should respect that, and leave you alone.
Like I said, maybe you should stop being so nice about this to him.
In order to let him know that he needs to leave you alone, you need to do or say something, that sends the message: "fuck off".

[RCT109]

Taryn's right tell him straight if he wont listen then forget him.

a friend of mine went threw the same thing but she wasnt looking for a bf and this guy wasnt getting the hint so i stepped in
maybe u should let ur bf handle it if he persists

[Mysterious Skin]

Say, " Please stop it, i don't like you in that way, but i like you as a friend."

[darkie]

Say it straight to his face. Some guys might take the distancing thing as something like being hard to get. Say it clearly and straight to the point, "Stop it, I'm in a relationship, I won't tolerate things like that."

[Pierce]

Be mean. It might be the only way to get through his hard head. I think you need to be out there and shoot straight with him. Sometimes people only understand things through anger. Get angry talk to him and tell him to stop. Maybe tell your bf he might do something. I understand you don't want to be too mean but he needs to get the message.