Very confused...

[NikosamA98]

I dont know whats happening to me. Im really confused right now! I dont even know if im still in puberty or if im a full time teen...See: I have a friend, hes bi, and since last summer vacations we've been jacking off together. I though i wasnt gay because i just had a lot of curiosity and i dont like boys, but he tells me that im bi and stuff. I dont know, i like girls but i like jacking off with my budies too! He even offered me a blowjob and i said no many times (hes still offering the blowjob). I even stoped jacking off because i was scared of this. Now, right in the moment i was sure i was straight, he talked to me (i wont say details) and now im really confused and dont know what to do! Im scared of talking with my dad about this because he could stop loving me or something for being bi...sorry for the long post. Im 14 btw

[Straya]

To tell you the truth I think your just curious. If you have no feelings for guys but just like doing a few things with them then yea I think your just curious

[JasonFlagmaster]

If your friend is constantly pressuring you do something you don't want to do, then what kind of friend is he?

You're 14. You'll be in puberty until you're 20 odd.

The reason you like doing it isn't because you're "gay" or "bi", it's because you're doing something sexual with another person.

[Noirtier]

What I see here, in all honesty, is your friend trying to guilt you and convince you that you're bi when you're really not, so that he can get you to do more sexually with him. That is absolutely unacceptable on so many levels. You're straight, and you know that deep down too. He's trying to make you out to be bi or gay, even when you're not. Don't believe what he says, and in all honesty, I would stop seeing him altogether, because any friend who does that isn't a friend at all. And really, if he keeps going on about it like that, you might even need to tell someone, because that's unacceptable that he keeps doing it. Tell him to stop, and find a new friend. We're all here to help and support you if anything happens too, always remember that.

[ackmedsgirl666]

sounds to me like your just curious and that your `friend`is trying to force something on you that your not sure of. i dont think your gay maybe bi but probably bi-curious.
have a talk with him and explain to him how you really feel and that you dont feel comfortable with how hes making you feel and pressuring you.

[chillguy1234]

You are growing and as u grow you'll began to be curious about many things. Dont let others pressure you into doing things you dont like. I would suggest that you not talk to ur friend about thia and really try to discover who YOU are and not what others want you to be

[Lost in the Echo]

Just because your friend tells you that you're bi, doesn't mean that you are.
He's not you, so there's no way he could know that.
It sounds like you were just curious, it doesn't sound like you're bi.

Also, if your friend stops talking to you over something like this, then he's not truly your friend.

Stop worrying about your sexuality, just go on with your life.
Labels are meaningless dude.

[princess09]

i think you need to relax and calm down, and if you like to masturbate dont stop becaue your scared if anytthing masturbation is healthy. lots of men/boys j o together is what you do and its the same for girls it doesnt make you bi or gay?? if you said no to the blow job then you obviously have a gut feeling not to do anything more that jo together. i think mainly your curious, if your scared to talk to you dad about even though im sure he would love you the same if you do come out bi or gay, talk to a friend or even a cousin or someone that cares for you. hope this helped :D

[Aeroflux17]

Be who you are.. Acceptance is the first step for Peace of mind..

Your father/family will accept you.. 100%

[The_Survivor]

It seems like you are curious. He is pressuring you... Stand up to him.

[Avenida105]

It might be just simple curiosity, I mean the way I see it is that your friend who is by bi might perhaps feel a bit alone and the way you describe it seems to be as if he is trying to make you bi.
You have to ask yourself the big questions, who are you? and what do you want? If you are bisexual, which there is nothing wrong with, then you have to accept yourself first, then as for your dad, how strong is your relationship with your dad? Most parents at first are pretty shocked to hear their son or daughter come out, but I mean they are your parents, they raised you, fed you, and loved you and even though sometimes we become cold no matter what they say they will still love you.

[Seattle-WA-Roxx]

I have a friend at school like this. He's Bi and he pressures me to be Bi, and Im not gay or anything, maybe a little curious but thats just it. He isnt a true friend if he pressures you. Ignore him. I get where ur coming from bro.

[zerosix22]

You are growing and as u grow you'll began to be curious about many things. Dont let others pressure you into doing things you dont like. I would suggest that you not talk to ur friend about thia and really try to discover who YOU are and not what others want you to be

This! :)

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[Eth_94123]

I would probably say you are just curious :)