Hellomrjesus
December 23rd, 2012, 11:14 AM
Okay so I've been having dreams about this guy in my school and I have a crush on him. But he has a girlfriend. Now dont get me wrong I like girls too, it's just that these feelings turn on and off and I've been curious lately. This goes against my religion but I know god will still forgive me. I hope it's a faze. Someone help I need feedback from someone who knows what I'm talking about
Noirtier
December 23rd, 2012, 11:23 AM
Alright, first let me say that I understand how you feel, I understand what you're going through. I'm gay, and I struggled with accepting that a lot. As for you, in all honesty, I think that you're probably just curious. The reason I say that is you said, "...these feelings turn on and off..." If you were bi or gay or something of the sort, the feelings wouldn't really turn off. They would still be there. Now, the thing is, you'll find out more about yourself and who you are as you grow older--you're young, this is the time when you figure out who you are, who you like. As far as your crush goes, you can be friends, but I wouldn't try dating him. At all. Because, first of all, he has a girlfriend, but second of all, I highly doubt he's gay and really, I just wouldn't try to get your hopes up when it's something that isn't going to happen. If you can accept that fact, you can begin to get over him too. We're all here to help and support you, and I know that you'll figure things out eventually hun.
ImCoolBeans
December 24th, 2012, 01:35 AM
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