(Repost) i need words of wisdom!

[jlchill]

BESTFRIEND:

my best friend and i re like brothers. he kissed me. it happened when we were walking from school. the rain suddenly came so we ran till we arrived in a old bus stop behind the bushes. i gave him my gym towel to let him dry himself. he stood up and kissed me on my lips so tight. i saw his face shocked of what he did. and he creid. CRIED. and said so sorry. but he ran away. i was shocked too. these past days, i always caught him staring at me at school. up until now. but everytime i try to talk to him, he always run away. i dont know if he's ashamed of what he did. or he just dont want me to be his best friend anymore. it breaks my heart.. am i gay? is he gay? the way i feel, is this even bein gay?

[MTGreat]

did you liked it when he kissed you? do you still want him to be your friend? just asking. I'm from manila too. :)

[ThatGuy69]

As I said last time, What he did is kind of gay but it's a cute story, hold him and talk to him and say how good friends you are but don't bring it up again

[deanbrodi]

Maybe he wants to be gay with you, but now he thinks you don't like him for kissing you. Try & grab hold of him & tell him you're still his friend. If you aren't ready to be gay with him, tell him so.

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, it would appear your friend is gay, because it seems like he's in love with you.
If you have feelings for him too, then you could also be gay.
It doesn't seem like you like him in that way though.

Maybe he's just confused about his sexuality, and he's really in love with you, and after he kissed you, he probably thought that it would make you mad at him, and that you don't want to be friends anymore.
If you have an emotional attraction towards him, then maybe pursue a relationship with him.
If you're not emotionally attracted to him, and you don't want to be in a relationship with him, then just let him know that everything is cool, let him know you're not mad at him.
Tell him everything is fine.