Pressured

[Sam With a B]

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[Troy35216]

if you weren't okay with it, then say you weren't okay with it. if you don't, she will think you were perfectly fine with it and may want to do it again.

[ReginaGeorge]

Tell her you were not okay with it at all. If you don't want it to happen again, tell her that too. Wow, that is really extreme. She may expect it to happen regularly, as may the gay friend. Unless you're really sure you want it, speak out. Don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want.

[Skyline]

Tell her you were not okay with it at all. If you don't want it to happen again, tell her that too. Wow, that is really extreme. She may expect it to happen regularly, as may the gay friend. Unless you're really sure you want it, speak out. Don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want.

I agree 100%, if you're not comfortable with it then you should definitely talk to her about it.

[Noirtier]

Recently my girlfriend has been subtly expressing the idea of sleeping together and all that goes along with that. But the other day she told me she gets turned on by men kissing, an that she had invited her gay friend over. She knew I'd be somewhat okay with this because I'm very open to a lot, but one thing led to another and it turned into something else. In which she watched her friend give me anal as though we were not in a relationship. And I haven't brought it up since this happened to me, but I'm wondering whether I should just let it go, or tell her I wasn't okay with it.

I'm going to be blunt here. What she did was just plain wrong. Not only did she pressure you into kissing him, she pressured you into doing things you were NOT comfortable with. And the fact that this occurred while she knew you were both in a relationship is unacceptable. She basically forced you to cheat. You need to have a serious discussion with her, and set out what is and isn't ok. Tell her that what happened, and what she did, pressuring you into that, was NOT ok by any standard, and in all honesty, if she tries to do it again, drop her and move to someone else. If I were in your position, I would drop her now and move to someone else, but I doubt you want to do that, you'll probably want to give her another chance. And, the fact that the two of them pressured you into it, in all honesty, that's illegal. That could even be regarded and considered as rape of some sort, even if you claimed to consent to it to please your girlfriend. I'm sorry this happened to you, and I really hope that everything works out in the end...

[Eth_94123]

That was very wrong what she did! But you shouldn't have gone through with it you should have said NO, if you felt uncomfortable and if she'd have said she didn't want to be with you if you didn't do it then so be it! I think you should tell her that you wasn't ok with it! :(