Log in

View Full Version : am i gay ? am i too horny?


guyinoxford
December 22nd, 2012, 05:15 PM
1: i'm attracted by a guy in our politics class,he is very handsome and similar to a cute child star Asa .
He always sitting next to me and I always peek at him .
When teacher turn off the light in order to increase visility of electronic screen i will have horny idea in my mind such as want to touch him (leg or private places )
What should i do ? Actually i don't want to be gay .
Thanks


2: another weird thing I wanna to mention that I think I have a weird ability: I can identify someone whether gay or not based on faces ,I don't know correct or not but just have some kind of feeling ...............i suppose a lot people have it as well.

3: I still curious and wanna to touch it or even suck it but how can I do it .
I don't think this guy is bi or gay maybe curious but who knows .....
any advice will helps...........


4: i don't think i have emotional attractions on girls....
.
is that asexual?

Sean4U
December 22nd, 2012, 05:34 PM
well being gay maybe I'm not the one you want to answer, but not knowing your age (thinking between 13-14 from what you put) I would think you are very curious, especially about this guy since he is very cute...nothing wrong with that does not mean you are gay .... a lot more goes into being gay, i.e., emotional feelings,...not just physical....

guyinoxford
December 22nd, 2012, 05:44 PM
well being gay maybe I'm not the one you want to answer, but not knowing your age (thinking between 13-14 from what you put) I would think you are very curious, especially about this guy since he is very cute...nothing wrong with that does not mean you are gay .... a lot more goes into being gay, i.e., emotional feelings,...not just physical....

thanks ! Actually I'm just 17 years old.
I really want to touch him sometimes but i have done nothing coz him will think I'm gay and every one will know it soon i suppose or he want to do something similar as well ...................

well being gay maybe I'm not the one you want to answer, but not knowing your age (thinking between 13-14 from what you put) I would think you are very curious, especially about this guy since he is very cute...nothing wrong with that does not mean you are gay .... a lot more goes into being gay, i.e., emotional feelings,...not just physical....

another weird thing I wanna to mention that I think I have a weird ability: I can identify someone whether gay or not based on faces ,I don't know correct or not but just have some kind of feeling ...............i suppose a lot people have it as well.


What's that?

.....what's wrong with me.

Please don't double post use the edit button instead~DerBear

Lost in the Echo
December 22nd, 2012, 06:31 PM
I think you just have a crush on him. From the information you gave, i'm not sure if you're gay or not. You could be, or it just could be raging hormones.
Either way, just go with the flow, whatever happens, happens.

DerBear
December 22nd, 2012, 06:46 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality-->This is a more relevant section.

I can't say if you're gay or if you aren't gay. I will say it is very natural during puberty and early life it can be very natural to experience sexual feelings towards the same gender, this is known as being curious which is normal. Really the only thing you need to maybe answer which might (not saying it will) consider is if you have a sexual and emotional attraction to him as that is a massive contributing factor to being gay.

I will say that being gay is natural and really their isn't anything you can really do about it if you are as it really isn't your choice. Its in your DNA Mark Up. Anyway, I hope this helps and good luck for the future.

guyinoxford
December 22nd, 2012, 06:50 PM
I think you just have a crush on him. From the information you gave, i'm not sure if you're gay or not. You could be, or it just could be raging hormones.
Either way, just go with the flow, whatever happens, happens.


Thanks ,actually I wish the guy has the same feeling........otherwise I think nothing will happens..

Steve Hala
December 22nd, 2012, 06:55 PM
you could just be curious man!

Magnus Bane
December 22nd, 2012, 07:19 PM
yea i agree with derbear seemto be curious at this point

jlchill
December 22nd, 2012, 09:20 PM
same here!

Coolboi
December 22nd, 2012, 09:35 PM
1: i'm attracted by a guy in our politics class,he is very handsome and similar to a cute child star Asa .
He always sitting next to me and I always peek at him .
When teacher turn off the light in order to increase visility of electronic screen i will have horny idea in my mind such as want to touch him (leg or private places )
What should i do ? Actually i don't want to be gay .
Thanks


2: another weird thing I wanna to mention that I think I have a weird ability: I can identify someone whether gay or not based on faces ,I don't know correct or not but just have some kind of feeling ...............i suppose a lot people have it as well.


What's that?





.....what's wrong with me.

o nothing is wrong with you ! It's normal to be attracted to someone boy or girl it's puberty at it best . an what you think you got some kinda gaydar or what ? Well some ppl say they can see it but who knows talk to him an be a good friend

Mysterious Skin
December 22nd, 2012, 10:54 PM
2: another weird thing I wanna to mention that I think I have a weird ability: I can identify someone whether gay or not based on faces ,I don't know correct or not but just have some kind of feeling ...............i suppose a lot people have it as well.




That sentence just set back Gay rights by 10 years....

anyway, Puberty is a long, confusing time. Hormones are producing feelings that may or may not be true. You may not be gay, but have a simple "bromance" (i think that's how the straight dudes put it) don't worry about it too much.

Good luck :)~Fame Hooker

Jupiter
December 22nd, 2012, 11:52 PM
1: i'm attracted by a guy in our politics class,he is very handsome and similar to a cute child star Asa .
He always sitting next to me and I always peek at him .
When teacher turn off the light in order to increase visility of electronic screen i will have horny idea in my mind such as want to touch him (leg or private places )
What should i do ? Actually i don't want to be gay .
Thanks


2: another weird thing I wanna to mention that I think I have a weird ability: I can identify someone whether gay or not based on faces ,I don't know correct or not but just have some kind of feeling ...............i suppose a lot people have it as well.


What's that?

.....what's wrong with me.

are you emotionally attracted to him? that can very well be your answer. i mean, can you see yourself actually being in a relationship with him and lovingt each other and not just for sex.

btw, looks like asa? AWESOME

guyinoxford
December 23rd, 2012, 12:38 AM
are you emotionally attracted to him? that can very well be your answer. i mean, can you see yourself actually being in a relationship with him and lovingt each other and not just for sex.

btw, looks like asa? AWESOME

idk I think I just want to touch him as him very cute and smart....... and I always can see a bulge located in the Private place coz he always wears black skinny pants..... ... and I have a weird idea in my mind that I want to suck him .............

How can I do it we are just very usual friends......and I'm very shy... ....................

Ok I admit it sounds very evail..and horny ............

Twilly F. Sniper
December 23rd, 2012, 10:25 AM
Probably bicurious, from what you put I see no emotional attraction.

guyinoxford
December 23rd, 2012, 06:33 PM
Probably bicurious, from what you put I see no emotional attraction.

but I don't see I have emotional attractions on girls..
so the situation may be complicated.
Asexual?

Kacey
December 23rd, 2012, 09:12 PM
I think you just have a crush on him. From the information you gave, i'm not sure if you're gay or not. You could be, or it just could be raging hormones.
Either way, just go with the flow, whatever happens, happens.

i agree, dont do anything stupid though

Troy35216
December 23rd, 2012, 09:37 PM
well if your main concern is "are you gay" and you have a magic ability to tell if someone is gay by looking at their face, then just look in the mirror and see if your face magically tells you if your gay or not.

If your main concern is your crushing on this guy and your afraid your gonna molest him when the teacher turns off the lights ask to be moved to a different seat.

If your main concern is you really want to suck him but don't know how to make it happen use your magic ability and look at his face instead of his bulging crotch and see if he has the magic gay face. If he doesn't he probably won't want you to suck him. if he does, ask him out.

If your main concern is your not sure what you are or what he is and you just find yourself crushing on him and you realize your full of crap about your magical ability to tell by looking at someone if they are gay or not then put the sex aside for a while and just get to know him and hang out with him and see where it goes. either the feelings will get stronger and you can go from there or they will go away or you will sense something from him or you won't.

but whatever you decide, put aside the stereotypes and give up on that magic ability stuff cuz you will either end up missing out on the love of your life or hit on the wrong guy and get a bloody nose.

guyinoxford
December 23rd, 2012, 09:55 PM
well if your main concern is "are you gay" and you have a magic ability to tell if someone is gay by looking at their face, then just look in the mirror and see if your face magically tells you if your gay or not.

If your main concern is your crushing on this guy and your afraid your gonna molest him when the teacher turns off the lights ask to be moved to a different seat.

If your main concern is you really want to suck him but don't know how to make it happen use your magic ability and look at his face instead of his bulging crotch and see if he has the magic gay face. If he doesn't he probably won't want you to suck him. if he does, ask him out.

If your main concern is your not sure what you are or what he is and you just find yourself crushing on him and you realize your full of crap about your magical ability to tell by looking at someone if they are gay or not then put the sex aside for a while and just get to know him and hang out with him and see where it goes. either the feelings will get stronger and you can go from there or they will go away or you will sense something from him or you won't.

but whatever you decide, put aside the stereotypes and give up on that magic ability stuff cuz you will either end up missing out on the love of your life or hit on the wrong guy and get a bloody nose.

thanks ,this is the longest reply I have seen...
Very nice analysis.
I may can't tell by looking at my face...
And I think the guy is very normal ....and im not sure if him curious. Hopefully yea.

I can control myself anyway so not really necessary to move.. I like sit next to him as i can always see bulge.

Twilly F. Sniper
December 24th, 2012, 02:33 PM
but I don't see I have emotional attractions on girls..
so the situation may be complicated.
Asexual?

Bicurious aromantic?

Eth_94123
March 8th, 2013, 05:11 PM
1: i'm attracted by a guy in our politics class,he is very handsome and similar to a cute child star Asa .
He always sitting next to me and I always peek at him .
When teacher turn off the light in order to increase visility of electronic screen i will have horny idea in my mind such as want to touch him (leg or private places )
What should i do ? Actually i don't want to be gay .
Thanks


2: another weird thing I wanna to mention that I think I have a weird ability: I can identify someone whether gay or not based on faces ,I don't know correct or not but just have some kind of feeling ...............i suppose a lot people have it as well.

3: I still curious and wanna to touch it or even suck it but how can I do it .
I don't think this guy is bi or gay maybe curious but who knows .....
any advice will helps...........


4: i don't think i have emotional attractions on girls....
.
is that asexual?

I would say you are either gay or bi, but only you can truely figure out your sexuality and as for not wanting to be gay ... Well it isn't a choice you either are or your not lol be proud of who you are! :)

Shadow
March 11th, 2013, 02:36 AM
To me it just sounds like you are curious, and there is nothing wrong with that at all lots of people are during puberty. Don't worry about it.