nyboy
October 15th, 2007, 09:28 AM
Looking for some advice...
I'm gay. My best friend is straight, or at least for the last two years we have been friends he has claimed to be.
He know's I am gay and has been a great friend to me, he also know's that I am in love with him. Here is where I am confused:
Recently we went on a short trip together where we shared a bed. The first night after much debate I decided to put my arm around him in bed while he was sleeping and "spoon" or cuddle with him, whatever. He didn't wake up, I fell asleep with him in my arms, a few hours later we both wake up, he makes no attempt to remove my arm from him, so I ask him if its ok, I make sure I'm not crossing the line, he assures me he doesn't mind and that all is well, we go back to sleep. Every night for the remainder of the trip he fell asleep in my arms.
Reminder, I am gay, and in love with him, and he knows this. He is straight. Or is he? I feel like that this isn't a very straight thing to do? I'm just really confused and any advice or opinions would be appreciated...
(we also went to the steam room where i asked him if he minded if i went in naked, he said no, and then i asked him to join me, and he said, sure why not) --this i don't think is that weird.
I'm more confused about wether or not someone who's really straight would let there gay friend who is in love with them cuddle with them....
HELP:wub:
I'm gay. My best friend is straight, or at least for the last two years we have been friends he has claimed to be.
He know's I am gay and has been a great friend to me, he also know's that I am in love with him. Here is where I am confused:
Recently we went on a short trip together where we shared a bed. The first night after much debate I decided to put my arm around him in bed while he was sleeping and "spoon" or cuddle with him, whatever. He didn't wake up, I fell asleep with him in my arms, a few hours later we both wake up, he makes no attempt to remove my arm from him, so I ask him if its ok, I make sure I'm not crossing the line, he assures me he doesn't mind and that all is well, we go back to sleep. Every night for the remainder of the trip he fell asleep in my arms.
Reminder, I am gay, and in love with him, and he knows this. He is straight. Or is he? I feel like that this isn't a very straight thing to do? I'm just really confused and any advice or opinions would be appreciated...
(we also went to the steam room where i asked him if he minded if i went in naked, he said no, and then i asked him to join me, and he said, sure why not) --this i don't think is that weird.
I'm more confused about wether or not someone who's really straight would let there gay friend who is in love with them cuddle with them....
HELP:wub: