Long,Complicated story- Help if you can!

[Mysterious Skin]

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[ReginaGeorge]

Tell him! Tell him tell him tell him! I think it's obvious he really likes you. Tell him before it does become purely physical because feelings can fade. I think something might ruin if you don't tell him.

I don't what else to say, but get your feelings out, man. Tell him how much you enjoy his company and all the good things you think about him, and if he's reacting well, say you enjoyed that night too. If he doesn't like you back, I'm sure you can still be friends. You're technically friends now and almost banging each other.

Just do it. He might be a bit worried and expecting you to say something first so he doesn't make a fool of himself, the same way he only admitted he was gay after you admitted first.

Just do t. See what happens. :) It going to help you to get your feelings out to. Don't bottle them up. :)

[spw184]

I agree with Jess, your going to have to tell him, and tell him soon. If you don't he may get the idea that what you had there meant nothing, besides, im pretty sure that he's going to start having regrets if he was a virgin when you guys did that and that might make him not like you.

You need to tell him ASAP.

[Mysterious Skin]

Okay, so i said it. I told him that i really like him, as much more than a friend. i told him about how i felt about that night. about everything. he said i think i feel the same way, but i'm not sure what to do.

I feel WAYY better now, and thanks for the advice. Not to be annoying, but what should i do from here? do i leave him to think about it and wait for him to respond or should i keep trying to talk to him about it?

Thanks again. :D

[ReginaGeorge]

First of all, YAY, congratulations, it's a great step. :) I'm glad getting it off your chest helped too.

Let him think about for a couple of weeks, maybe 2 or 3, maybe 4 depending on how often you see each other, then ask about it. Don't pressure him into it, just let him come to it on his own, and just send him that little reminder every couple of weeks or so. You may only need to do it once, you may need to do it 100 times, I can't give you a time frame of when he'll discover his true feelings.

I would recommend not doing anything overly sexual, like touching or anything, you can keep the flirting going, but the main thing you should do is keep being his friend. Sex (and similar things) might conflict him more, unless he outright asks/goes for it.

Just keep being you and he will come to his feelings in his own time. :) Good luck, I hope things work out for the both of you.