trouble during sex..

[amandamarril]

my bf's penis is too big it wont fit into my vagina should we just forget about it & have oral or next time this issue comes up just have him shove it in??

[bbychop]

i used to have the same problem with my boyfriend during sex. it all depends on if your boyfriend can control the size of his penis. if he cannot, an easy way to do it is to gradually put it in, not shove. shoving causes too much pain and could cause some bleeding in the end.
this is a prime example and i am sorry if it is too much information. my boyfriend is ten and a half inches. he can control his to be a smaller and stay that way until he is fully in. usually it will grow inside instead of just "being pounded into" so to speak.
try having it go in in little baby steps, not just all at once.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Well until you can do it without so much pain I think you should spread your legs as wide as you can and only use the missionary position; you will be able to accept his size better this way, so it's a good way to start off.

[Aηdy]

Girls Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

We dont usually allow threads asking for advice such as this, but I think we can let this one stay.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Well as long as it keeps her from harm, I think that advice should be given; thanks for keeping it open. Any more ideas guys?

[Maverick]

you will be able to accept his size better this way, so it's a good way to start off.
How do you know this?

I agree with Ashley, the advice from a girl who has had experience in with this issue,

[RaisingSand]

Amphetamine is right. "Shoving it in" is a bad idea and could cause you some damage (tearing, bleeding) and also a hell of a load of pain.
Asking him to work on controlling his size is a good idea, and when you two do eventually have sex, he'll probably have to be gentle and go slowly so as to not hurt you.
Good luck.

[northskater110]

Yea, prob just let it in slowly, lube would be good too =]

[Hyper]

Did you like forget the part about foreplay.. Be relaxed etc

And do explain to me how does a guy controll he's size? :D

[Aηdy]

Did you like forget the part about foreplay.. Be relaxed etc

And do explain to me how does a guy controll he's size? :D

I assume by just managing to control how hard is erection is.

[Attax]

Ask him if he can control it... I had to do this and trust me it is not an easy thing to do... so do not be frustrated if next time you try to do it he cannot control the size... it will take practice

[BikiniGal]

your guy shouldn't just shove it in,that might cause harm ot your vagina,U could try soem lube and spreaing your legs wide.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

I agree that lube would be a good idea

[hisfavgirl]

I had that problem with my first bf, on our first time he was a virgin (i didnt know) and was really nervice. I just layed there and relaxed and he rammed it in as hard as he could, and i squirted blood...

See if he will put it in when he is soft, then have an erection when he is inside of you.

[Serenity]

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