I need some advice.

[brisk]

Jumping right in --
As you can probably guess, there is this girl I have feelings for (I've liked her and only her since the seventh grade). She's really sweet and very, very pretty. Since the school year began, we have talked a LOT more.
Here's the problem -- I'm not quite sure about what she has in mind. Since she decided to sit next to me in Spanish and math (which happen to be the only two classes we have together), she's seemed to open up. When we got off-topic and started talking about how people who are in relationships live longer, she told me she was "out of luck" with a smile. I think I'm at a fork in the road; the friend-zone or a relationship. Can someone please tell me what I should do?! It's the end of semester and I don't know if we will have classes together after holiday break!

[ReginaGeorge]

Spit it out. Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you think she's pretty, and sweet, and lots of other things, but don't say nice words for the hell of it to try to flatter her, say what you really think about her. Just put it all on the table, and see if she's up for giving you a shot.

[Ben4ever]

Spit it out. Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you think she's pretty, and sweet, and lots of other things, but don't say nice words for the hell of it to try to flatter her, say what you really think about her. Just put it all on the table, and see if she's up for giving you a shot.

I agree with Jess! It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. It is better to let her know your feelings and have her just want to be friends than to have her like you and you to never tell her and break her spirit.:(

[Aves]

I've been in this situation, and believe me, it's a lot easier to have "no" said to you than to have the possibilities bombarding your mind. I once liked a girl for three years, but never told her. I thought she had friend-zoned me, but in reality she liked me back just as much. We had discovered this about two months back, but now I've lost my chance for the time being. Don't make the same mistake.

[brisk]

Thanks, Con, Ben, & Jess!
Appreciate the help.

[TheBigUnit]

Thanks, Con, Ben, & Jess!
Appreciate the help.

Bud listen here this is what you do, tomorrow or when ever u see her before break ask her is she wants to go to the mall(or someplace, malls usually a good place for a boy and girl to walk together especially this time of year, I don't recommend any homes at first because it may sound like I have certain intesions)
Walk her around the mall and all, and going home ask her when ur in private if she wants to be in a relationship with you. Good luck

[Kacey]

Bud listen here this is what you do, tomorrow or when ever u see her before break ask her is she wants to go to the mall(or someplace, malls usually a good place for a boy and girl to walk together especially this time of year, I don't recommend any homes at first because it may sound like I have certain intesions)
Walk her around the mall and all, and going home ask her when ur in private if she wants to be in a relationship with you. Good luck

thats actually a pretty good idea

[silkysmoove]

Tell her how you feel! Its better then getting hurt by not finding out she doesn't like you or never knowing she does