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SQLguy
December 18th, 2012, 10:11 PM
So there is this girl that I started talking to on facebook, she goes to an all girls school, I go to an all guy's school. Well I really like her and I want to go out with her. Ive never met her in person before, and I need a simple plan of action on how to get to that point. My primary goal is asking her to my school's semi formal dance which is the first week of march, and I would probably ask her mid to early January.

Thanks in advance

brisk
December 18th, 2012, 10:27 PM
If the only way you are in contact is on Facebook, you're going to have some trouble.
Is that the only medium for communication you have? Have you ever even *seen* her in person?

SQLguy
December 18th, 2012, 10:32 PM
She lives a couple towns over from me, I have never personally seen her.

brisk
December 19th, 2012, 06:27 PM
Then your only chance is Facebook.
That's not very sold ground; I hope you're good with words. :P

I wouldn't go to a dance first, but that's just me.
It may be awkward if it's the first time you see her, but it's your choice. I'd go to a movie or something less ... serious--just until you know each other better.

CharlieHorse
December 19th, 2012, 06:27 PM
Romeo and Juliet?

SQLguy
December 19th, 2012, 10:34 PM
Obviously i want to meet her before I ask her to that dance, I just dont want it to be in a way where I could mess things up, like a date. Would going on a "date" as friends be a possibility, I would think that kinda takes the romantic pressure off

Arsenalfan123
December 20th, 2012, 05:12 PM
I had a crush who lived towns. We are really good friends and its all Facebook, texts or the old calling. Try flirting and get her number. ;)

Arsenalfan123
December 20th, 2012, 05:13 PM
Sorry I just read it back it not 'lived towns' its moved towns

SQLguy
December 20th, 2012, 06:01 PM
I already got her number and we are ooVoo contacts, ive never done ooVoo with her and I texted her once, but facebook is the primary method of communication

LouBerry
December 20th, 2012, 06:03 PM
When you ask her, be up front. I like you and I really want you to go with me to the "insert name of dance thing here".

If she turns you down, just don't give up. Wait a week or two and try again.