freaking pissed

[MalditoDia]

Ive talked to a boy before and ive watched gay porn. I cant see myself ever actually being with a boy romantically or physically but just cause I cant see it doesn't mean it could be so. Cause on one side I'm down to try it once but then again I'm totally against ut. I thought I made my sexuality up a while ago and its really pissinv me off because I hate not knowing stuff and its even worse when I don't know stuff about myself!!! :mad:

[Lost in the Echo]

It sounds like you're either curious/bi-curious, or just completely confused about your sexuality.
It could just be hormones.
Don't feel like you need to label yourself right now.
Whatever orientation you are should be clear to you after you've finished puberty, when your hormones will be settled.

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It sounds like you're either curious/bi-curious, or just completely confused about your sexuality.
It could just be hormones.
Don't feel like you need to label yourself right now.
Whatever orientation you are should be clear to you after you've finished puberty, when your hormones will be settled.

In some way, I agree with you, but for some reason feel the need to point something out.

So you say that he should wait until puberty is over to define his sexuality, yet all the straight people don't even need to second guess themselves? I might be wrong in my opinion, but isn't that some sort of double-standard?

IMO, I believe you should take what your heart wants, what your mind tell you, put it together, and make a decision. It's not like you can never change your mind. IT'S YOUR LIFE!

[MalditoDia]

Thanks mi amigos

[Lost in the Echo]

In some way, I agree with you, but for some reason feel the need to point something out.

So you say that he should wait until puberty is over to define his sexuality, yet all the straight people don't even need to second guess themselves? I might be wrong in my opinion, but isn't that some sort of double-standard?

Well no, that's what I meant. I probably should have worded it better.
What I meant was if he's confused, it's best to wait until his hormones have settled, since he's not quite sure what orientation he is. By then it will be clear to him what sexuality he is.

For some people, it's clear to them what orientation they are, but for some, they remain confused about it until their hormones settle.

I didn't mean for what I originally said to sound double-standard.
Some people are just sure about their orientation, and others aren't.

[Skyhawk]

Sometimes it's just best to give it time.