I need your opinions!

[Skyline]

I am starting to question my sexuality, not me being straight, but me being gay. In my heart I truly do believe in my heart that I am gay, but in my head everything is like a jigsaw puzzle. I have a strong emotional and physical attraction to guys where as I have neither towards girls. Here is where I start to question if I can call myself gay. I have never really "experimented" with a guy. The farthest I have ever gotten with a guy is a kiss here and there. My mom is pretty strict on me about where I am and who I'm with, if I have a friend sleep over then my door has to be open at all times and occasionally she will "check on us." If I leave the house then I have to check in with her every 20 minutes, and under no circumstances am I allowed to stay at a friends. So in my situation trying to do anything is pretty hard. So my question to you guys is, even though I haven't "experimented" can I still call myself gay?

[Noirtier]

I would say most certainly if you haven't experimented or done anything sexually with a guy you can still call yourself gay. You yourself said, "...I have neither towards girls." referring to an emotional and physical attraction. If you don't have that towards women, you're not straight or bi. And if you do have that towards men, you're gay. You don't have to experiment to know your sexuality--it's about who you're attracted to. Personally, I believe you're gay. Hell, I've never really "done" anything, and I know I'm gay. Don't second guess yourself on this one, your heart knows what it wants.

[dan8854]

i think gay and straight and everything is a continuum. you are neither one extreme completely.

[Danny_boi 16]

If you know who you are inside, be proud of it. Its ok if you haven't "experimented" with another person of the same sex. I don't see how that's a step for a person to find out who they are. But I could be wrong, like I am all the time. Just don't let your mom, dad, brother, sister, neighbor, Danny_boi_14, etc. make you decisions for you. I hope you find peace within yourself soon.

[teen.jpg]

I haven't really done anything with guys OR girls, but I know that I'm bi.

You just KNOW, deep inside of you.

[Charles123]

I'm not sure about my sexuality (as far as I'm concerned i think I'm Bi) and neither experimented with boys or girls I'm really confused too. I like to define myself as a guy "opened to new experiences". Your case is different from mine because you don't feel attracted to girls. But as long as you haven't done The Thing itself, you can be just curious and the thing will just flow or not. So in my opinion you better wait

[Skyhawk]

Many people haven't experimented, yet they know what they are. :)

I see your mom likes to micromanage you? Well, that just means she cares a lot about you. ;)

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[FergusDunn]

I am starting to question my sexuality, not me being straight, but me being gay. In my heart I truly do believe in my heart that I am gay, but in my head everything is like a jigsaw puzzle. I have a strong emotional and physical attraction to guys where as I have neither towards girls. Here is where I start to question if I can call myself gay. I have never really "experimented" with a guy. The farthest I have ever gotten with a guy is a kiss here and there. My mom is pretty strict on me about where I am and who I'm with, if I have a friend sleep over then my door has to be open at all times and occasionally she will "check on us." If I leave the house then I have to check in with her every 20 minutes, and under no circumstances am I allowed to stay at a friends. So in my situation trying to do anything is pretty hard. So my question to you guys is, even though I haven't "experimented" can I still call myself gay?

I think your sig says it all - call yourself whatever you like

Not having experimented or whatever proves nothing and indicates nothing
its how you feel that counts - but of course you can then be in a realtionship
and find its so very different - but thats life and all

so take care

[Twilly F. Sniper]

I haven't really done anything with guys OR girls, but I know that I'm bi.

You just KNOW, deep inside of you.

Yup. Same here, true for most LGBT teens.

[Dimentio]

Well furthest i have gone with a guy is a hug but being able to tell you are gay is easy ha ha, Female parts gross you out and you like guys :D I have seen by your sig you know now which i am happy about, I hope your mum is okay with it all :)

[Magnus Bane]

yes you can still call yourself gay just beacuse you haven't expieremented with a guy doesn't mean that your not gay. if you are physically and emotinally attracted to guys then you can call yourself gay.

[guyinoxford]

Oh your mom is extremely strict whereas my mama... do what you want ......always telling me I should invite some friends home or go out with friends more often............i like stay at home and I don't wanna to invite friends either...... :'(
We are just opposite...
I think I like handsome and cute boys as well. But not really emotionally... Just wanna to touch them or even suck....