help me!

[confused.com]

Im 14. I've always been emotionally attracted to girls and I've even fancied quite a few in primary school, but since i hit puberty ive only been sexually attracted to men. ive never masterbated to a pic of a girl...only guys but i still see myself marring a woman! does this mean im straight, gay, bi, confused.......?

[Lost in the Echo]

I think you're just going through a curious phase. And by the way,you posted this in the wrong forum :P

[ImCoolBeans]

VTHQ :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[VerizoniPhone]

Thats what happened to me. Im gay and i still see myself being married to a girl. The reason I see myself being married to a girl is because thats the norm. When you were 6 and in preschool your parents would be like "So how many girlfriends do you have already" they already assume that you like women. Its the norm. The only way to find out if you are gay/bi/etc. is time. just wait it out. Explore your choices. <3

[teen.jpg]

Or you just know what you are and accept it. I never really thought "curious" was a phase, but more of a deciding factor in sexuality. Idk, maybe it's just me.

[Dimentio]

Well i was always attracted to girls and always loved them but there was always something about guys in the back of my mind, Then i hit puberty at 11 and slowly started liking guys, Then 12-13 i was dead set on that i liked guys, But i still have feelings for one girl so yeah it can take it's time but you could be bi or slowly going gay just give it some time and you will know but never force anything :) Also you don't have to do anything with a person to know what you are, Just deep down you know.

[Sean4U]

amen Kiernan, that last sentence is so right...."Just deep down you know"....yes it may take some time but there will be a point that you know who you are and what type of a relationship you want....I've never been attracted to girls, ever, so I knew from a very young age that only boys were who I wanted to be with emotionally...sure as kids its always "girls have cooties" or something, but for me I never have thought of a girl emotionally or physically

[Magnus Bane]

ive know for about three years now and still not sure if im gay or bi i mean i like boys and prefer boys but i mean i still like this one girl so they are all right it is going to take som time for you to decide
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[Jakeisamazing]

It is completely normal, your just curious, I was like that and I am bi(:

[deanbrodi]

It means that it's too early to put yourself into any category, because you're in the depths of puberty, when your mind & brain are going thru some big changes on their way to being grown up. Wait till you're 18 maybe, when your feelings might have become clearer by then.

[anyone50]

you don't have to make up your mind right away live a little and experiment around so you can decide based on the relationships you have in the next few years. I read a lot of different forms beside this one and one thing i have learned is that no one is truly straight or gay but different shades of gray if you put 100% straight on one end and totaly gay on the other end of the spectrum you will find most people fit somewhere other than on the ends.