personal space!

[mynameisjane]

i go out everynight with this guy and our group of friends. whenever i get cold, he wants to cuddle me. but i dont want him so close because i only like him as a friend. he says that it makes him feel bad because guy code says when a girl is cold, you have to cuddle her. i tell him i just don't feel comfortable getting that close to someone unless i like them. he says i just need to get over that because other girls like it. i dont know what to tell him.

[The Resurrected One]

Other girls.


That doesn't mean you. Him saying you have to get over that because other girls like it is nonsense. If you don't feel comfortable with it he has to understand.

[Underground_Network]

Exactly as Johnny said, you don't have to be like those other girls. Make your own decisions, do what you want. If you don't want to cuddle with him, and he really presses you to do it, just tell him off, he's not a very good friend if he refuses to listen to you and understand that you have an opinion.

[bbychop]

i agree wholeheartedly on what the two above said.
i know what it is like to be told get over it because every other girl is like that, the only difference is that he is my boyfriend. :confused: if you do not like him like that and he does not get the hint, just stop hanging around him. if he does not get it once or twice, he will never get it.

[Gumleaf]

just tell him that basically you don't care what other girls want or do, and that you want to do whats comfortable for you and not what others do, or something like that. (hope that makes sense, theres a lot of "do's" in there).