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Lock
December 18th, 2012, 12:53 AM
A girl i dont know before grinded with me in a club does that mean she is interested in me and if she is how can i ask her for her number? And get her 2 go out with me?
CharlieHorse
December 18th, 2012, 01:01 AM
depends! Was she?:
-drunk?
-hanging out with other guys / grinding them?
-(is) a party animal in person?
-working at the club?
If you answered yes to any of these, then she's probably not very interested in you.
Talk to her at least anyway. See what she's like.
Ellie wood crainey
December 18th, 2012, 06:41 AM
sweetie not trying to sound mean, but she's in a club, had a bid to drink and dancing she just grinded on you, its not a big deal, probably only interested in a one night stand.
Lock
December 18th, 2012, 08:22 AM
i kind of monitored her movement and i tell u she was so not drunk not even tipsy,she doesnt work there and she came with a female friend
ackmedsgirl666
December 18th, 2012, 08:25 AM
well your at a club
what else is there to do... shes obviously gonna wanna get down and dance with someone so before you jump to conclusions and wanna date her first you dont even know her... how do you know things would work.... so slow down
maybe hang out with her more first before jumping the gun
its.me.akshay
December 18th, 2012, 09:07 AM
are you sure any of you werent drunk?? :P
dude... clubs are like that!! shed be fine ta take out for a date... but thats all that can stand!!
kaostheory
December 18th, 2012, 04:28 PM
In a club-type environment, it usually doesn't mean anything. Girls dance with guys, and it doesn't necessarily mean that she's into you. It doesn't hurt to ask her for her number though. The worst she'll say is no. And don't take it personally if she isn't into you. I actually had something similar happen to me at a party. There was a girl grinding with me, and later I tried talking with her, but she started dancing with someone else and blew me off.
Lock
December 18th, 2012, 07:33 PM
I see am gonna try and hang out with her.but how do i do that?that is get her to wanna hang out with me?
Mortal Coil
December 18th, 2012, 08:16 PM
how do i... get her to wanna hang out with me?
Be nice and hope for the best. Suggest going in a (mostly female) group, and generally honesty is the best policy: just say that you would like to hang out sometime.
Women are people too, and just like you if we don't want to hang out with someone then we need something pretty big to change our minds. If she does reject you, then accept it. Girls rarely play hard-to-get and a no means "no," not "try harder."
StoppingTime
December 18th, 2012, 08:30 PM
Puberty101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating. This fits better there :)
And as others said, I'm not really sure that grinding with you, or anyone in a club, shows that she wants to go out with you.
But you can't know until you ask her. And what's the worst that could happen? She says no, but you'd move on.
And the best? Maybe she'd want t ostart dating/hanging out/going out with you.
teen.jpg
December 18th, 2012, 08:53 PM
Umm... not to be rude but.... doesn't almost every girl in a club grind on each other?
Don't let yourself think into this. It was.... say it with me... For, Fun. Don't let it mess with your mind.
Let it go...
Lock
December 19th, 2012, 06:14 AM
Yeah not thinking about it but trying isn't going 2 hurt ryte?
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