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Steffanie2020
December 17th, 2012, 09:25 PM
so I just recently came out at school and I feel great about it but I feel like the other girls are testing me. like today this girl was acting kinda weird and sexual around me by smacking my butt and grinding on this other girl and getting my attention. another girl uses me and makes me do favors for her like getting papers or throwing something away for her (stuff like that) and calling me babe. now, she has never called me that but ever since people found out I was in a GSA club at school they started acting different. I don't mind them doing it cause they're cute and popular but its starting to make me feel uncomfortable. And another thing their doing is trying to make me look at their a** and binding over in front of me (playing it off like their picking up something). are they testing me or something? trying to see if I look at girls or are they just playing with me and my emotion? PLEASE HELP!!!
Lost in the Echo
December 17th, 2012, 09:29 PM
Just tell them to stop, because it makes you uncomfortable, and you don't like it.
If they are true friends to you, then they will respect your wishes, and knock that shit off.
Sean4U
December 20th, 2012, 05:58 PM
I came out when I was 14 Stephanie...and I somewhat experienced the same thing....a lot of the guys wanted to "test me" and see if I'd do something with them cause they knew I was into guys....boys, as you know think with their little head not their brain...and when I rejected them all (well most :P) it stopped....told them if I was interested I would let them know...all they wanted was sex...and that just wasn't me...I wanted someone to be with and I finally found my BF :D
LouBerry
December 20th, 2012, 06:05 PM
Well, if they know your sexuality, just embrace it. If their kidding with you, just act like a hard ass and play right back.
Abyssal Echo
December 20th, 2012, 06:10 PM
I agree with Sean4U. but, you could / should just ignore them....don't let them know it bothers you. if you do that eventually they'll quit bugging you because its a waste of their time.
Twilly F. Sniper
December 20th, 2012, 08:37 PM
This happens to me! When I came out guys started acting strangely. Exactly like this actually. I just try to ignore it as much as I can.
chrisawesome
December 21st, 2012, 08:54 PM
They are either ass holes or they may actually like you! Like, Like you!
I had this similar problem. A guy at school whistled at me and made a sexual noise when I was walking by. I still dont know if he was being serious or just being funny! If he was being serious, I should've jumped on that..., Because he was SOOOO HOTTTTT! Like naked Taylor Lautner's brother, Justin Bieber's cousin, freeballing Abercrombie model hot... by the way people at school say his dick is 6 in. flaccid. Anyway TMI
So ask friends if that person is homo and then if they are, "jump on it"
Eth_94123
March 9th, 2013, 03:12 PM
Just tell them you feel uncomfortable them doing it and could they stop :)
Shadow
March 9th, 2013, 03:40 PM
The way this sounds to me is that they are harassing you and if it is making you uncomfortable then you should tell them to stop, and if they continue to do so then I would suggest you contact your local law enforcement as in many places this is considered sexual harassment and is punishable by law.
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