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CheeseChaser
December 16th, 2012, 06:14 PM
I am in kind of a tough situation at the moment. There is this girl that I really like and I want to give her flowers and ask her out. I am not sure whether it's too soon because we officially met a few weeks ago. My dilemma is: I am afraid that it's too early; the only class I have with her is PE so I don't know how and when to present the flowers and ask; and I can't decide whether or not I should do it in front everyone in my gym class or pull her out and do it privately in case of rejection. Oh, and I don't know how to ask her out, which is an epic fail. Give me a break, I've never felt like this towards anyone before.
Thanks to all who respond today.
CheeseChaser
December 16th, 2012, 06:42 PM
Please respond quickly people. I already bought flowers and need the help by tomorrow. Thanks!
Insert_Username
December 16th, 2012, 06:52 PM
First of all, don't worry about it being too early to ask her out.
Put simply, I'd say asking her out in front of everyone is a bad idea. Not just for your sake, but for her sake. She may feel embarrassed or put under pressure suddenly, and she may reject you for that, even if she really does like you.
Speak to her privately and let her know how you feel. Don't get worried about rejection. It happens a lot, and if it happens, it happens. I know it's daunting, but just stay confident.
Hope this helped a bit.
Coolboi
December 16th, 2012, 07:04 PM
well it is tuff to do that in front of a lot of people I think you should get her alone an then ask her it's better for you both and a single rose would of been appropriate for the first time an easer to hide you could put in your book bag an meet her at her locker or some where private just be calm an respect her to good luck to you hope it all works out an I'm sure it will
Mortal Coil
December 16th, 2012, 07:15 PM
Do it in private. It will seem more sincere to her and she's less likely to suspect that it's a stupid prank or anything. Flowers will work well. Just invite her out for coffee or a movie or something. The Hobbit just came out, right? ;) ;)
Good luck!
Jakejjj
December 16th, 2012, 07:22 PM
Ask her out I'm pretty sure she will say yes girls like those things
AlexanderTheGreat
January 8th, 2013, 05:29 PM
Do it in private. It will seem more sincere to her and she's less likely to suspect that it's a stupid prank or anything. Flowers will work well. Just invite her out for coffee or a movie or something. The Hobbit just came out, right? ;) ;)
Good luck!
I know this is off topic but the hobbit is AMAZINGGG!!!!
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