When I have sex..

[YouMeAtSykes]

When me and my boyfriend have sex we always kiss and rub against each other for a bit before hand, but I always have to suck him off because I never get wet. He thinks I'm not attracted to him but I know I am and I get really up for it sometimes but I still can't get wet and it hurts to get him in me.. What do I do? :(

[Caitlin34]

I would suggest using lube.

[Taryn98]

Make sure he fingers you or does oral on you before hand. That makes most girls very wet. If that doesn't work use lube.

[YouMeAtSykes]

I would suggest using lube.

I never thought about that, but isn't there any way I could try and 'fix it' naturally?

@bove; Okay thanks :)

[Ellie wood crainey]

Like Taryn said let him finger you or eat you out that should get you sex juices flowing ;) if not get some lube. Hope this helps!

[YouMeAtSykes]

Like Taryn said let him finger you or eat you out that should get you sex juices flowing ;) if not get some lube. Hope this helps!

Thankyou!:)

[tifferslove13]

Make sure he fingers you or does oral on you before hand. That makes most girls very wet. If that doesn't work use lube.

This ^ Right there.. make sure he puts some time into you

[Amy_I_am]

make sure he puts some time into you

And then he can put something else into you lol. :lol:

[Katiebabe98]

Are you on the pill?? A lot of times the pill will make you not as wet. Just get some lube you will be fine :)

[anyone50]

If your not too embarrassed i would go see your gyno because there May be a medical cause to your not getting wet. You say you rub around each other a bit not sure how long a time that is but generally if he's not spending at least 20 or 30 minuites of foreplay with you maybe he's rushing the penatration too quickly. Maybe instead of you giving him head next time he should go down on you and see if that makes a difference. hope this helps

[katebelanger]

fingers you or does oral to you before having sex :)

[Swimmie]

If a boy wants to have sex with me again, he HAS to make me cum before he penetrates me...
Ask him to eat you out until you cum, that'll make you wet enough :D

[Silvie]

Maybe he just likes being sucked more than he likes being in you?

[CatFS]

make him eat you out first. If that doesn't do the trick, get some lube.

[Sxc_Sammie]

Make sure he fingers you or does oral on you before hand. That makes most girls very wet. If that doesn't work use lube.

I agree!! Get him to give you some fore play before hand!! If it don't work lube

[Kacey]

Make sure he fingers you or does oral on you before hand. That makes most girls very wet. If that doesn't work use lube.

tell him he might have to do oral

[tifferslove13]

If a boy wants to have sex with me again, he HAS to make me cum before he penetrates me...
Ask him to eat you out until you cum, that'll make you wet enough :D

That is an AWESOME policy

[toobigforlife]

Do some foreplay first dont go straight to sex

[Sarah_Ward]

I'm not that well up on how boys are when it comes to sex but I think that he has to consider you too, i have heard that most boys when they get aroused they forget about us and just need to penetrate us and don't think of how we feel. I think he should take more time in foreplay coz we need to get wet for him to penetrate us without it hurting.... I haven't had sex yet with a boy but I know that it takes me time to get more than just a little moist down there

[CuteIchigo]

This is why foreplay is important... have him make you cum at least once before penetration

[Harley Quinn]

Don't bump old threads. :locked: