liking girl 2 years younger...

[hscott729]

recently, i've started kinda liking this girl, two years younger... (im in y11, she's in y9) and i feel bad about it, but i can't help it :/ i keep thinking about her & stuff, and going places where she might go( not stalking, just like going to places she might go (library for instance).

i don't know what to do, cause, obviously i like her, but i feel really bad about it :/ any ideas on what i should do?

thanks

[Lost in the Echo]

2 years isn't that big of an age difference.
Go ahead and ask her out or something, it's fine. :)

[hscott729]

thing is at my school, although its common to date 1 year out of your own, its abnormal to do it 2 years outside of your own, and espcially not with y9s :/

[Lost in the Echo]

thing is at my school, although its common to date 1 year out of your own, its abnormal to do it 2 years outside of your own, and espcially not with y9s :/

Don't worry about that, just do what makes you happy.
Don't pay any attention to what others think.
The difference between a 1 and 2 year age difference in a relationship is not that big at all.

[tubanic]

Totally agree with Bocefus98.
Tell her the way you feel, 2 years difference isn't bad or unusual.
Good luck :)

[Ellie wood crainey]

theres no need to care about age differences, you cant restrict love, theres 7 years between my parents so 2 is no biggie!

[hscott729]

the thing is though, in my school its like really really weird.... :/

[TheBassoonist]

My advice to you: don't worry about what other people think. If you like her, then you like her.

[hscott729]

thanks, bassoonist :D

also a bassoonist here :D bassoon ftw :P

[Jakejjj]

If you like her then you should talk to her ignore what they say

[Christine.]

If you were 14 or 15 2 years would be nbd, but 11 and 9 seems a little weird to me.

[hscott729]

sorry, im talking about school years, im in year 11 and she's in year 9

im 15, and i think she's about 13

[flyboy27]

walk right up to her and ask her out. i go to a school that has 250 kids in the whole school and im a senior that was dating a sophomore, same diff as you guys. Believe me, you may get some crap for it at the start, but if you guys stick together for a bit, then everyone else isn't gonna care much anymore.

[hscott729]

thanks for your support guys :D

other thing is, im not too concerned about what other people think, but i personally kinda feel bad about it, like its wrong... :/

[Amy_I_am]

thanks for your support guys :D

other thing is, im not too concerned about what other people think, but i personally kinda feel bad about it, like its wrong... :/

Its definitely not wrong.

[Ctnc920]

2 years isn't a large age gap, I say go for it

[ramgoat647]

Two years is not a big deal at all. I'd say go for it. Also, as you get older, 2 years (and more, sometimes) becomes normal. My parents are 4 years apart, for example.

[EvaHlt]

Ask her out! I would love a bf that is older than me! Tho, 9 years old is a lil young for me but go ahead! Don't be shy. :)