bad fantasies

[Hufflepuff]

I know its REALLY bad and I feel super guilty for it but i have rape fantasies. I don't WANT to be raped for real but i still have these fantasies and it's like i'm only turned on by porn where rape is involved. i like the thought of being dominated.

is this bad? i'm a really serious feminist and everything. i would never admit this anywhere else and i wish i didn't have these fantasies because they make me feel like a sick person. AM i a sick person???

[Harley Quinn]

No, you're not a sick person, everyone has something that makes them tick, even if they don't actually act out their fantasy. Some people get turned on by feet, being dominated etc is technically the same principle. Just because you're a feminist doesn't make it "wrong" nor "sick". Rape fantasies are actually pretty common.

[abp1999]

Everyone has odd fantasies so it isn't too weird.

[Josie95]

I've had fantasies like this too and I also felt guilty about it. I felt like it was disrespectful to women who actually have endured that horror, even if it was only in my own mind. My fantasies often involved being dominated by a man. It's a big turn on for me. I don't know why.

I've actually found out that rape fantasies are not that uncommon.

[Amy_I_am]

I've had fantasies like this too and I also felt guilty about it. I felt like it was disrespectful to women who actually have endured that horror, even if it was only in my own mind.

Its not. We dont get to choose what we feel about things, only how we act on such feelings. so long as you keep it as your own private fantasy youre not being disrespectful to anyone.

And its not really right or wrong to have any type of fantasy, its just what is.

[tifferslove13]

I used to feel bad but then I realized it wasn't being raped it was just being ravished (had to look it up) that got me revved up. I just want to be thrown down by a stranger who is so turned on by me that he has to have his way with me every which way right then and there and I have to accept it! :D

Rape has very little to do with sex. So that is how I got past any bad feelings

[tifferslove13]

dumb double post

[LitBlackRose]

That's not odd at all . I have rape ones to. I don't want to be but I like being dominated. I also have bondage ones to . i think its normal

[Josie95]

I just want to be thrown down by a stranger who is so turned on by me that he has to have his way with me every which way right then and there and I have to accept it! :D
YES! :yeah:

[Cassygurl13]

Yeah it's not exactly right I feel, but it does sound pretty exciting! :D
Its def exciting, just kinda got me goin thinking about it

[anyone50]

I used to feel bad but then I realized it wasn't being raped it was just being ravished (had to look it up) that got me revved up. I just want to be thrown down by a stranger who is so turned on by me that he has to have his way with me every which way right then and there and I have to accept it! :D

Rape has very little to do with sex. So that is how I got past any bad feelings

I agree with you that rape isn't about the sex and i too often have thoughts of just being taken by a stranger and ravished but the difference between being raped and having thoughts of being dominated is that in our thoughts the stranger is always someone that is desireable to us and not some pervert hiding in the bushes.

[Hufflepuff]

thanks everyone for the replies! i feel a little better about this now

[Sarah_Ward]

I have lots of different fantasies that float my boat, most of them I would never do in real life but I guess that's why they are fantasies so its a personal thing and its totally normal I think,

[Harley Quinn]

Don't bump old threads. :locked: