Another Girl Question

[Insert_Username]

Well, its been a while since I last asked for advice here, but I remember how much better I felt after some responses last time, so I'll try again. :)
I've never had a girlfriend, and as far as I know, only one girl has ever liked me (though I didn't really see her as more than a friend).

A few months ago, I met a great girl. She was funny, nice, everything, and we got along well. We were in a group of friends though, so I never really hung out with her individually. A few weeks into the friendship, I realised I liked her. Anyway, up until this point, I had never asked a girl out, but I knew that I couldn't just be friends with her and always wonder 'what if?'
So, I made a plan to ask her out.

However, about a week before I was going to see her and ask her, I was speaking to her on Facebook and while she didn't actually say it, she implied that someone had told her I liked her.

I saw her later that week anyway (it was still the whole group, not just us), and while I didn't ask her out, as she didn't really suggest that she liked me as more than a friend, I did make my feelings clear.

From there, things seemed a little bit awkward every now and then, but got better as time went by. Now, about a month and a bit later, we sometimes joke about it.

Jokes aside though, I'm still always thinking about her. Ever since that day, I've tried to let her go, and I've reached the point where I really just want to be a friend to her. We've all met up a few times since, and we're close friends, but I've hit a horrible point.
I'm not sure if I like her.
While part of me thinks there would be nothing better than just being her friend, other parts of me get sad at the thought of not seeing her for a couple of weeks. I mean, I still get a feel of pure joy when I get a text from her.

I guess I'm just wondering what you guys think I should do?
I don't want to ruin our friendship, but it's getting more and more difficult to be friends with her when I keep getting this feeling of utter dread when I need to say goodbye.
Is it weird that I'm not completely sure if I like her or not?

I know this is quite the vague post in many ways, but I just wanted to vent this out a bit and see what others think.

[ackmedsgirl666]

Maybe try and sit her down and talk with her
Explain how you feel
Don't try and push anything onto her and try and consider how she might feel

[Lost in the Echo]

I think you should try to talk to her ( individually, just the 2 of you ) and tell her what you think of her, how much you like her, and how you want to be more than just friends with her.

It might seem scary telling her the way you feel about her, but usually things aren't as worse as they appear, and she might possibly like you too, so I think the best thing to do is just tell her how you feel.

[Insert_Username]

Thanks for the help.
I guess I'm just really worried about ruining our friendship, but maybe talking to her and telling her is a good idea.
Thanks again, both of you.

[Amy_I_am]

I actually disagree with the other people. From what you say, she defintiely knows how you feel, so telling her again won't change that.

But what also seems pretty clear to me is that she's just not into you in a romantic way, but doesn't know how to tell you directly. Since you joke about it with her, it will seem to her that you understand that this is how she feels and that you're happy with being friends.

If you bring it up with her again, there's a good chance that she'll think that even though you know how she feels, you're putting her feelings aside in order to get what you want. This could seriously jeopardize your friendship.