Big problem

[Maximum_A]

Ok so here's my problem, my friend I won't to be more then friend with her. The only thing in my way is a guy. She likes him, but it's been two years and he hasn't asked her out. I don't git it, she can't see that he's not going to ask her out. Also they'll never see each other because he lives lake an hour away. My question is, what can I do to git her to see what I see and date her? I like her a lot and don't wont to heart her.

[ackmedsgirl666]

Just try and talk to her
Try an tell her how you feel
Don't try and be selfish though
You also have to take into consideration how she might feel

[Noirtier]

If you talk to her and tell her how you feel then maybe--just maybe--she'll say yes to you and realize, deep down inside, that she'll never get anywhere with that other guy. Sometimes, at least in my experience, it takes dating someone else to get over a person. I wouldn't be horribly blunt or anything when I told her, and don't even mention anything about the other guy. And if she ends up not feeling the same way, and not being willing to try it, then respect her decision. Because that's all you can do, you can't force her to move on from someone, you don't control her. If she doesn't want to realize something, she's not going to realize it. I wish you the best of luck, but I also advise you not to get your hopes up too high in case it doesn't work out.

[Maximum_A]

Thanks for your help

[Jakejjj]

Talk to her about he and she will understand and won't have to wait for that other guy