What to do about brother

[Amy_I_am]

I keep catching my brother trying to see me naked. Hes walked into the bathroom a couple of times pretty much as soon as I get out of the shower and ive seen him peeking in my window when im changing as well.

Im not sure wat to do. If i don nothing he'll keep on trying and im gonna have to be always watching out. I dont wanna tell our dad cos he always goes really overboard at my brother about stuff and im scared of wat he might do and i do love my borther even if he is a bit of a perv.

It probly sounds silly but im starting the best thing to do to get over the problem is to get him alone and just show him what he wants to see so he can get it out of his system and stop botherign me.

Any ideas?

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, I think you should tell your parents.
I understand he might be a little "curious", but you are his sister and him trying to look at you in an inappropriate way is wrong.
He brought this on himself, so give him a warning, and if he doesn't stop then tell your parents.

[Amy_I_am]

I understand wat u mean but I really dont want to tell our dad (our only parent cos our mom died when we were both little). Maybe its cos my brother is getting olde rnow hes really really hard on him and they fight lots and sometimes my dad hits him if hes in a bad mood. i dont want to start another argument or fight between them. i know that really it wudnt be me starting it cos its my brother really starting it with his actions but i can do something to not make it a fight between them which i know it will be so telling isnt an option.

[ackmedsgirl666]

talk to your parents because hes making you feel uncomfortable
hopefully they will be easy on him and tell him off nicely....

or you can try and talk to him youself... tell him you have caught him peeking and you wanna know why and want him to stop. if hes younger then you he may just be curious about how your body looks different then his... either way he shouldnt be going about things the way he is

[Amy_I_am]

Hi. Yea I posted just before you did about the parents situation, but i will try talking to him.

[Lost in the Echo]

I understand wat u mean but I really dont want to tell our dad (our only parent cos our mom died when we were both little). Maybe its cos my brother is getting olde rnow hes really really hard on him and they fight lots and sometimes my dad hits him if hes in a bad mood. i dont want to start another argument or fight between them. i know that really it wudnt be me starting it cos its my brother really starting it with his actions but i can do something to not make it a fight between them which i know it will be so telling isnt an option.

Sorry about your mom.:(

I think you should tell your brother that you will tell your dad about him peeking in on you.
Don't actually do it, but tell your brother that you will, so that he's scared enough to not do this anymore.

[littlechief]

How old is your bro?

you're 14, right? sounds like he's a few years younger...?

I dunno about showing him what he wants. Sound like the wrong solution to me...but I have heard stories (mostly on here) of siblings doing much more that that. But that those stories (if true) were all people who wanted to do it. It sounds like you don't want to at all...you just hope that it will make the problem go away, which I am not sure if it will...

[Amy_I_am]

Sorry about your mom.:(

I think you should tell your brother that you will tell your dad about him peeking in on you.
Don't actually do it, but tell your brother that you will, so that he's scared enough to not do this anymore.

Thanks. Ill try that.

How old is your bro?

you're 14, right? sounds like he's a few years younger...?

I dunno about showing him what he wants. Sound like the wrong solution to me...but I have heard stories (mostly on here) of siblings doing much more that that. But that those stories (if true) were all people who wanted to do it. It sounds like you don't want to at all...you just hope that it will make the problem go away, which I am not sure if it will...

Actually he's a bit older then me - 15 almost 16. And no im definitely not interested in doing stuff with him. and the reason i think it might make him just get over it is cos he is pretty geeky and often gets really interested in things until he gets to know them then he gets bored and is into something else.

[dingo006]

When i was about 13 i went through a phase like this (mostly with my aunt and cousin) because i was curious and wanted to see naked girls. My mother and aunt kinda had this intervention thing and after the blushing and the stammering they really got through to me about it. It is better to confront it and talk about it than ignore it.

[Korab]

Just ignore him and say that it does not make you comfortable and probably he should quit peeking!

[tubanic]

Totally agree with some of the previous posters, tell your brother that it's making you feel uncomfortable and if he keeps doing it, you will do more to stop it.
DON'T just give in to him, he might think he's getting a strange message from you and it could go too far.

[tifferslove13]

Yea Talk to him about it. If you are not comfortable with it then it needs to stop ASAP!!

[Jakejjj]

Talk to him about it so he will understand not to look at you anymore and to respect you

[txtwister13]

I think you should talk to your brother and try to get him to understand what he is doing is really creepy and making you feel very uncomfortable. He's probably just curious about girls but he deff needs to satisfy his curiousity in a non-creepy way. I'd probably at least threaten to talk to your dad about it if he wont stop.

[Amy_I_am]

So i talked to my brother about how I was feeling, and he apologized about it all. I'm sure he's being sincere he says he just never even considered that it would have an affect on me as well. That is so like him, he's such a doofus wehn it comes to other people and he forgets that other people have feelings.

I'm probably making him sound like a real jerk, but honestly hes not. actually hes like the sweetest guy I know, hes just such a retard when it comes to other people. he gets stuck in his own little world, but when he's out of it and paying attention hes super considerate and caring. he does try to look out for me and hes even got himself beaten up a few times trying to stand up for me (he's really little, same height and weight as me and I'm a girl nearly 2 years younger).

We also talked about why hes been trying to peek at me and he was telling me that even though hes obviously always known I was a girl, he only really clicked recently that i'm female (coud be because in last 2-3 months i've gone from being an A cup to a C cup and have been wearig clothes that show how big my boobs have become instead of hiding how small they were).

Anyway i think it's just that he's getting really curious about girls. I know he hasn't even kissed a girl before. Hes probably never even bee close to kissing a girl before he's so super shy and even though he is very smart he is really dumb sometimes and especially around girls.

Um well, long story short - we talked and hopefully it will stop.

[Ben_E]

When i was about 13 i went through a phase like this (mostly with my aunt and cousin) because i was curious and wanted to see naked girls. My mother and aunt kinda had this intervention thing and after the blushing and the stammering they really got through to me about it. It is better to confront it and talk about it than ignore it.

First time ever telling anyone about this, but i went through the same phase when i was 13, lucky my phase with my sister only lasted 3 weeks while we were on summer holidays camping at the beach. I honestly think it was a combination of puberty, hormones, being able to finally shot a proper load of cum instead of just a little orgasm with clear cum ozzing out, being horny like all the time and also being down the beach with all the girls in bikini's and for the first time noticing my older sister had tits, when i saw her in a bikini. Also the fact my sis and me were sharing a tent which made it nearly impossible to jack off like i did at home each night. So hormones took over and i was doing some silly things, which eventually lead to my sister going nuts at me, then finally calming down and sitting down and speaking to me about it. I was really embarrassed by the whole experience and what i'd done. She explained how it made her feel and why she was so upset and annoyed about it, then asked me to think how i'd like it if it was being done to me, and also that she's my sister. Next few days after the talk i avoided her and it was really awkward each night in the tent, and after bout 4 days she just said to me to get over it and obviously i knew it was wrong what i'd done cos i'd been even avoiding eye contact with her, so she knew i regretted doing it. So rest of the holiday we put that experience behind us, moved on and that was the end of the phase.

[TheSocialInspector]

I had the same problem, except it was with cats and dogs in my grandmother's house.

Whenever I take a dump in the toilet, I(as a normal, self-conscious, generally shy about exposure person would do) would shut the door. I will also close the small, sliding windows cramped up at the wall. But whenever I take the dump, the freaking cat will always find a way to scratch it and come in and watch me poop.

Seriously.

She just sits there, waving her tail and staring at me pooping. I can't do anything about it and it's just so damn disturbing.

And now, about the dogs.

Whenever I take a shower, I don't really completely shut the door, out of fear that the lights will go out suddenly and some serial killer will come charging at me. At this point, whenever that damn dog hears the water rush, it's first instinct is to go into the bathroom and bark at me showering.

I can't do much about that either, because my grandmother doesn't appreciate me running naked around her house chasing her dog.

[Wanderer_]

I still would have just shown him - u still could and then he will see it's no big mystery

and congrats on getting great boobs :)

[Mirage]

Please don't bump old threads.

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