Please help!

[Rooster13]

Ok the other day I had sex for the first time, didn't lose my virginity or anything. I'm a guy and was experimnting with a girl and she couldn't finish me off (make me cum). We have planned to do it again soon. Is there anything I can do to make me finish quicker or at all. if it helps I masturbate every day and I'm 16 years old. sorry if this is innaproptiate staff people I really need advice.

[jean.auburn]

Sorry to brake that on you bro, but you had sex. you lost your virginity. period. and try not jerking off a couple of days before. gets the sex drive going.

[Troy35216]

Ok the other day I had sex for the first time, didn't lose my virginity or anything.

somebody needs a dictionary for Christmas

[ReginaGeorge]

If you had sex, you lost your virginity. Just sayin'.

Masturbate less. It should help. If you watch porn, watch less of it, or none at all until your next encounter with the girl

As for during experimenting, you can try a couple of different things, maybe, dirty-talk if you're both into that, or more foreplay (kissing, general touching etc). Also, relaaaax, don't feel stressed out, or pressured to do good because you're still learning, the goal is to have fun, during this, you will learn. Have a talk with her and share some things you want to try, and she might tell you some things she might want to try that you haven't thought of.

[Abyssal Echo]

like the others said your virginity is gone. stop jo for awhile before you have sex with her again. do play safe and wear a condom.

[FergusDunn]

Ok the other day I had sex for the first time, didn't lose my virginity or anything. I'm a guy and was experimnting with a girl and she couldn't finish me off (make me cum). We have planned to do it again soon. Is there anything I can do to make me finish quicker or at all. if it helps I masturbate every day and I'm 16 years old. sorry if this is innaproptiate staff people I really need advice.


Ok lets not blame it on the girl as in - "she couldn't finish me off"

so whatever your doing or trying to do - be patient - lot to learn here
and get used to - what do you want - what does she want.
I guess most guys can get so over stimulated - its gonna be impossible to finish off - or others cum to quick

Next time might be better for you both

take care and relax

[kaostheory]

It's not a big deal, really. The first couple of times are going to be a little nerve-wracking at first. My first time was really awkward, and we were kind of figuring it out as we went along. I didn't cum during sex until my third attempt! Just try to relax and enjoy it! It's when you let go of anxiety that you can really get into it.

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, if you penetrated her either vaginally or anally with your penis, you're not a virgin anymore.

Also, there isn't really anything that you can do to finish/finish quicker, because how quickly you are able to finish depends on how aroused/horny you are.

[Kyle_Rufus]

Is this like a common problem of lasting too long? Lol I've always heard about not lasting long enough.

[Coolboi]

well not a virgin anymore so that's clear now . And I don't under stand why you stopped doing it that's why you did not cum should of keep going . well better luck next time an slow up on masterbating before sex most guys do that to last longer . And relax be comfertable and most of all ware a condom safe sex is good sex good luck

[Trust]

omg that sounds grusome im not having sex until im atleast 21