being a slut!

[hardcore-smile]

Kay so i have a boyfriend. and im kinda like new to the how like fingering and blowing thing. but the guy im going out with likes that kind of thing and i would achully like to try it. But like if i do im a slut but if i dont im tight. i cant win either way .


WHAT DO I DO???

[The Resurrected One]

Ok, wait.


You have a boyfriend, and you're going out with someone else?


If that's the case, then your boyfriend won't be happy if you do that to the other guy. But I don't know, it is awkward.

What do others here say?

[Maverick]

If you're going to be doing sexual things with your boyfriend you should be comfortable with him enough knowing that he won't judge you and accept you for who you are not think less of you over trivial things. If you don't feel that way towards him you shouldn't do anything until both of you are mature or you find someone accepting of who you are.

[R_master]

fooling around with your bf doesn't make you a slut!

but if your not ready to be sexually active, or feel to young then maybe u guys should take it slow.

being tight is really more of a natural thing, it doesn't really matter if you let your boyfriend finger/fuck you. iv'e hooked up with a few girls who have "been around" and they aren't loose at all. maybe the word your looking for is prude.

but yeah, do what you feel is right, definitely don't rush into anything you'll regret.

[The Resurrected One]

ok, I get it now. :D


Do what you really want to, but think about it first and think about what might happen afterwards.

[Underground_Network]

fooling around with your bf doesn't make you a slut!

but if your not ready to be sexually active, or feel to young then maybe u guys should take it slow.

being tight is really more of a natural thing, it doesn't really matter if you let your boyfriend finger/fuck you. iv'e hooked up with a few girls who have "been around" and they aren't loose at all. maybe the word your looking for is prude.

but yeah, do what you feel is right, definitely don't rush into anything you'll regret.

QFT

You are not a slut for doing something sexual with your boyfriend... you are only a slut if you do something sexual with more than one guy during the same timeframe.

Anyway.. Johnny.. I should go to your banning thread and ban you for misinterpreting a post.

[The Resurrected One]

Anyway.. Johnny.. I should go to your banning thread and ban you for misinterpreting a post.


Nah, I just got confused there for a minute. But I think I get it now.

[northskater110]

only do it when it feels right for u

[bbychop]

how i view it always seems like a parents' point of view. :confused: if you feel like you are ready enough to have a mature, sexually growing relationship, then you should do it. my only suggestion is wait a little while (like for instance a month and a half or longer) until you do. it gives you a chance to know him on an even deeper level before doing things in that sense. you would not be a slut for doing it, because you and him both want it and you are not forcing it upon him or anything of that sort.
by the way, what i have heard from most guys is that being tight is a good thing. so do not worry about being tight.

[Underground_Network]

I sort of realized something.. this may be wrong.. but.. what the hell...
If you view yourself as a slut for doing something sexual with your boyfriend.. you are probably NOT mature enough to do something sexual with him yet, although, its up to you whether you do something sexual with him. You seem a little cautious, so I recommend really thinking it through before doing anything sexual with him. Don't let him pressure you, its your own decision, do it if you want to, don't just do it to keep the relationship together, and I think based on what you said, he wouldn't care if you kept the relationship nonsexual.

[bbychop]

Also if people dont know about it, they cant taunt you for it, so try and keep it quite, and not tell anyone!

i agree. once people know, they will not just taunt, usually the whole school finds out about it. believe me, i know from experience with that.

[hardcore-smile]

yeah thats what im afriad of. and i dont see myself as a slut but other people will talk because i have this one friend that has done alot of things and people call her a whore.

But me and him have touched eachother @ school like i touched his dick and he like rubbed me but we both had our pants on. and just because of that people are like telling me that im a slut , ?? i dont get it .

[Aηdy]

They're just immature. They'll get over it eventually, until then you'll just have to put up with it really.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Well immature kids will often do stupid things like that (call you a slut) when they see a P.D.A (Public Display of Affection... aren't acronyms nifty :D). Just ignore them; and do what you want with your boyfriend only when you're ready, worry about being ready more than being called a slut afterwards. :yeah:

[Spook]

If somebody wants you to do something that you don't feel comfortable with, don't do it. If you feel like you need to do it or your boyfriend won't love you, talk to him. He will understand if you are not ready. If you are, however, it never hurts to experiment! Be honest with him if you don't like it, or don't want to try again. he should understand. If your boyfriend gets angry with you for not wanting to do those things, then you are not in a good relationship. You should always be sure that you are ready. Good luck! ~Caitlin :yes:

[itsthat0n3kid]

just because you are sexually active doesnt make you a slut. only if you do it with many different guys in one period of time.

[Great Perhaps]

when it comes to anything sexual, don't do anything you aren't completely comfortable with, don't do anything you know you're not ready for.

as for being a slut, you are definitely NOT a slut if you do anything sexual with your boyfriend

[Hatsune Miku]

Lol epic bump.

[ShatteredWings]

Tut tut, matty you know better :P Report and move on


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