Dating Issue(Please help!)

[joshduder]

I am having a crush on a girl but she is pretty sarcastic and insulting. She does care abt me and talks well, but limited. Now, I really like her and I am pretty scared as to what will be her initial attitudes and expressions. She has never dated before and she looks damn hot. I really want to know any ways to approach her or ways to get her to know me and better our bonding. So could you'll give me your feedback.

[DerBear]

Questions for Both :arrow2: Relationships and Dating

Well, I know this might sound obvious but just chat to her about anything that you two are both into. If she's a member of any club or activity then you might consider taking an interest in that club or activity.

You could also chat to her online. Its a great way to start conversations because its online so you'll be less nervous and starting with the usual things people ask online to each other is usually quite good and can get a conversation going. Then you could move on from that.

[FreeFall]

When you say insulting do you mean sardonic/cynical? If she's rude nearing verbally abusive, you may want to weigh these again.

Anyways, talk to her. Let her warm up to you and see you're an alright person that she doesn't need to always be sarcastic or insulting to. Go slowly, unless you feel the speed is at your liking, or she may jump and run like a deer. Speak to her with enough interest she could probably hint you like her, but not so much that she begins to feel smothered. Find a nice balance : D

[joshduder]

thanks

[believable]

Remember that the best relationships are based on personality, not looks. If you like her because she is sarcastic, then I would say go for it. If you like her because she is hot and wouldn't mind the sarcasm, then you should go for it. If you like only because she is hot and the only thing that is holding you back is the fact that her personality, then I would recommend dropping the entire thing.

If she is the loudest person in the class, then I wouldn't recommend asking her out either. This means that even if you guys were in a relationship, it wouldn't last long and the moment you broke up, she could turn on you and your friends.

This is all hypothetical so good luck with whatever you do.

[joshduder]

Really good suggestions every1!!

[thisisben]

the advice I would give is try not to ask online, I did that before and it made things EXTREMELY awkward but i guess there will always be a little bit of awkwardness

[Taryn98]

Find an activity or interest that you have in common and do it with her so that you can get to know each other better. Once you know you have common interests, it gets easier from there.