My older brother and me got in a fight.. please help!

[Xtechno14x]

So today was not a good day.. I woke up late for school, and wasn't feeling well in the morning, but I still had to go to school, of course. So I asked my older brother for a ride this morning, and I'm normally supposed to give him a well in advanced warning before asking for a ride. (Day or night before) Which I have no problem with! I just needed a short warning ride this morning. Well he got upset about it, and started yelling at me about it.. me, Not feeling well and upset that I'm late for school, snapped back and yelled at him back. The whole way to school we we're in this huge argument. I told him that he is running away his family, and it's going to get to the point where he isnt going to have us anymore. He started yelling at me even louder, and getting more upset with me. I hate when my older brother, especially him, is upset with me. He is my idol, I've told him a million times that I want to grow up to be just like him, Well educated and have a perfect life like his. Instead of stopping and telling him sorry, I snapped again and told him I'm done calling him my brother and took out my phone and deleted his phone number, and everything about him off my phone, all of our pictures we ever took together, everything. Pictures that can never be replaced again. About an hour later I had to go back home due to me not feeling well again.. I came home, and was going to go straight to his room to tell him sorry, instead I walked into his room with all of our pictures together gone. I completly lost it. I've been crying off and on ever since. Can someone please help me on how to get through this. I love him and dont ever want to loose him in my life. My life will be complelty over if he is out of it. Please help!

Thank you so much,
Nick

[Sonic Boom]

Just explain why you were so upset, and that you didn't mean all those hurtful things you said. I'm pretty sure he is mature and understanding enough to forgive you sincerely. If not, he'll get over it with time, just like my brother and I always do when we get into a fight. :P

We all have little anger outbursts that are difficult to control. No one's perfect.

P.S Don't worry about the photos you deleted, I'm sure there are plenty more lying around ;)

[XJRookie07]

Wait a little bit to let both you and him cool off. There is nothing worse than trying tomtalk to someone about something so serious when you have a lot of anger built up. Once you feel like you are calm enough to have a serious conversation with him, go to his room and ask if y'all can talk about what happened that morning. If he says he is fine talking then just let him know that what happened wasn't the normal you. Apologize for the way you blew up and about the things you said, but don't beat it down so much that every sentence is an apology. Just talk and see where it goes. No one can tell you what tomsay. You have to say it from the heart. Hope everything works out between you and your brother. I know how much a small fued between siblings can ruin your day. Good luck with the talk.

[niceguy44]

just go & try to talk to him about it. tell him how sorry you are about what happened. explain why you snapped like you did.
good luck. i hope everything works out well for you.let me know how you get on.