Parents problem

[armadaskiing]

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[StoppingTime]

I'm going to move this to the Board regarding family situations, as it fits better there. :)

[tubanic]

Ah that sounds really crap :(
it's really bad that you have to go through this, noone should have to.
Talk to a doctor if you feel too stressed or depressed, it sounds like a very stressful situation you're in.
Hope you're ok :)

[armadaskiing]

Yeah :c

[drew .]

quit talkin to her

[FreeFall]

When your parents fight, don't intervene. It isn't your place to play referee to your parents, they're the adults, and this is their battle. You're just the kid. You have no responsibility to them, and you're stressing yourself out by putting yourself in the middle. Perhaps fighting to the end would be what's best for them. Maybe it will wake them up and say "oh, wait, we're not 12 so why're we acting like it?"

They need to learn to work together, co-parent, be adults and stop relying on you guys. And you guys stopping the fights, only shows them that their babies will pick them up, when it should be the other way around. I understand your dad and feelings on the house, but by asking her to put it in your name would really fuck up your future. The credit, the mortgage, the payments, the bills, the up keep? Kids do not need that and since your mother's already irresponsible, she would drag you and your brother's name through the mud. Your credit, your debt, it would all be her fault.

I don't know how your country works, but maybe it's time your dad fight for primary custody of you two. Why isn't he fighting for you two anyways? He sounds more stable and secure, and a better role model. Or can't you go to the courts and say you live with him?

[anyone50]

sounds like a nightmare and not going to be easy to get thru. because of your ages there not a whole lot you can do besides sit back and watch the destruction unless you can prove to a judge that this situation is causing mental distress and then the courts and CPS would step in and that may not be any better than what your going thru now if they take you out of the home. you didn't mention if things would be better if you lived with your biological father.