A Question for Boys

[aprilshowers]

So, I really thought this guy liked me and a ton of other people did to. I felt like it was pretty obvious he was flirting with me, but when I asked him out, he turned me down. Now he hangs out with me even more than before, and I feel like he even goes out of his way to be around me. Color me confused. So am I just over analyzing things, or what do you think is going on in his mind?

[StoppingTime]

:arrow: Relationships and Dating, this'll fit better there.

And likely, he's probably being a classic guy: wanting someone more because he now knows she doesn't want him. Depending on his personality, he may ask you out again, he may not.
If he doesn't, maybe he just wants to be good friends with you. If he does, then, you'll find out soon enough. :P

[Snakz]

:arrow: Relationships and Dating, this'll fit better there.

And likely, he's probably being a classic guy: wanting someone more because he now knows she doesn't want him. Depending on his personality, he may ask you out again, he may not.
If he doesn't, maybe he just wants to be good friends with you. If he does, then, you'll find out soon enough. :P

Cant disagree, "us" guys are typically like that ;)

[IAMWILL]

How did you ask him out the first time? As in did you ask him to be your boyfriend or just like on a date? That matters.

Otherwise, there may be a few reasons why he denied you the first time but now seems to want you back. Firstly, he may have just been shocked that you asked him out, and denied you because he was worried. Secondly, and don't be offended by this, but he may have thought that people would make fun of him for dating you, and so denied initially, but now after realizing that he does want to date you and its not a matter of whats his friends think, he wants you back. Thirdly, he may have not wanted to make a commitment at that time. Its a lot better to hang out and get to know each other well before going out, the best relationships almost always start as best friendships.

I think you should try and spend a bit more time with him, and maybe he will make a move. Otherwise, if he continues to show that he likes you, try asking him out again, but be clear on what you're asking (just so you know he understands).

[aprilshowers]

Cool,thanks for the advice! Yeah, I just asked if he wanted to see a movie sometime.

[Pierce]

I can't believe I'm about to say this but maybe try to make him jealous. One thing true about all guys no matter what sex they're attracted to is that they want what they cant have. I think you making yourself too available and you asking him out turned him away. Maybe flirt with other guys around him and he'll ask you out. I usually don't recommend that lol. Best of luck!

[Abyssal Echo]

Cant disagree, "us" guys are typically like that ;)

have to agree with ya :P

[Jakejjj]

He probably likes you but isn't ready yet to go out with you give him some time

[Arsenalfan123]

Yup that's guys ;)

[Steve Hala]

Maybe he is considering it! But maybe he wants you to know that even though he does not want to date you, he wants to still be friends