Question about climaxing. Please answer?

[Allen.58]

I'm not planning on having sex for another few years (I'm 16), but about 6 months ago I started being in a relationship with this girl, and we're really committed and perfect together, and sometimes we talk about sex (but not at an obsessive amount).
I'm just curious about one thing in sex for the moment, and I'd like to know the answer. Okay, so I'm a virgin, and I know that the first time I have sex, I'm going to climax (cum) really fast. That's kind of embarrassing to me.....and what I'd like to know, how long will it take, until the time it takes me to climax gets better, to around a minute or two? You can answer however you want, because I realize it differs (probably; not sure). Like, how many times of having sex until it gets better, or how many months, etc? If you have an answer, I'd like to know! :3 Thanks.

[DerBear]

Teen Sexuality :arrow2: Puberty for Boys

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[Allen.58]

Okay, sorry!

[Sean4U]

Well, yes I think all guys are concerned about pre-mature ejaculation....but maybe if you jack off a couple times first, you'll definitely last longer...and just realize that it gets better and you'll last longer as you grow older

[Allen.58]

Do most guys jack off before sex, just to last longer? XD
And the amount of time it takes.....comes with age? O.O

[Backflipboy]

Don't jack off beforehand, that's only a good way of losing your erection and your sex drive!

You can control how long you last from your first time, just make sure to pull out when you feel it coming and spend some time kissing or focusing on her. After a while you should be ready to go back again.

[Nellerin]

Wear a condom lol 1. save you from std's/getting her pregnant and 2. you will last at least twice as long.

Also, you can jack off before having sex like 30 minutes before it shouldn't affect you getting hard but will make you last a little longer, but personally I think condom is the only true good way.

[cowboys1]

Don't forget the condom!! (Unless your planning on having a child for some reason lol) and practice will make you last longer

[ThatGuy69]

Do you jack off normally? If you do just before you climax stop and then let it calm down and go again and keep doing it, it will make you last longer

[Troy35216]

idk cuz i don't have any experience in this area but would "practicing" with blowjobs help? (that's for people who have been there/done that). if the problem is that the first time jsut feels so spectacular that you can't hold back, is that true for BJ first time too? and if you have experience with BJs for a while before having sex will that make you last longer the first time you have sex? i hope that didn't count as storytelling or anything that breaks the rules. I am still learning my way here