Is he making a move!?!

[thedoctorisahipster]

My friend invited me over at 9:45 the other night to finish watching a movie with him. I thought it was odd he called half way through it. When i got there we went up stairs to watch the movie. He shut both the hallway door and the door to the room we were in. (as if he didnt want to be heard or disturbed) we had all the lights off and were sitting on the couch about 2 feet apart. He was sitting with his hand awkwardly on the couch in between us. It seemed too close to me to be unintentional but i wasnt sure. I don't really know if he would be into me because weve only be friends for a couple months. Was he making a move or am i paranoid? If he was what should i do? would sexual things ruin our friendship? A little backstory on me too- I'm gay but not really out but alot of people think im like bi or really curious.

[ackmedsgirl666]

he possible could have been hinting at something..
maybe ask him

[PinkFloyd]

Maybe the reason that he closed both doors was because of the type of movie you were watching... I wouldn't want my parents hearing American Pie or some other R rated movie coming from my room. Of course, that only applies if you were watching a movie that he wouldnt want his parents knowing about.

About the hand thing... That is slightly weird, but keep in mind that maybe thats just how he sits normally.

It is kinda weird that he called you over during the movie at like 9:30. I wouldnt too too much of it though.

Would sexual activity ruin your relationship? Im not absolutely sure. I do have some experience in this though so ill give you my best answer. I have known my current girlfriend since we were like 4 years old. We were just friends up until 7th grade. One night we were watching a movie and she hinted not so subtilly. We then went on to experimenting (Id rather not go into much detail). Since then weve been closer than ever. Although, it doesnt work out like that all the time. I know a couple kids that werent ready and it ruind their relationship. Sex is a HUGE milestone that requires intelligence, physical readiness, and knowing the other person very, very well. If you are lacking any of that, then it's probably best you stop him if he tries anything for the sake of your friendship

I hope I helped, dude
- Rob

[thedoctorisahipster]

I dont think his parents would have minded the movie also they were already asleep

[PinkFloyd]

I dont think his parents would have minded the movie also they were already asleep

I dont think hes trying anything. Like you said... youve only known him for a few months.