Why does sex hurt?

[cry4eva]

Why does sex hurt??? so many ppl tell me that it hurts the first time like hell why?:confused: thx!

[Bankai15]

because it usaly hurts for girls, thier is a hymen in the vagina and when a girl first has sex that hymen will usaly break causing aka "poping the cherry" which results in bleeding and some pain.

[byee]

Sex hurts either if you're too young and unprepared, or your guy doesn't know what to do. For most modern girls, the hymen is usually ruptured long before first sex, things like tampons and physical exertion taking care of that.

[bbychop]

sex for the first time hurts because your body is not used to something different inside of it. it stretches your vagina out and usually the hymen is broken and that causes a lot of pain within itself, but it all depends on how your body takes it whether it bleeds or not. in some cases, like mine, girls start their period within a day after getting their "cherry popped".

[Serenity]

sex for the first time hurts because your body is not used to something different inside of it. it stretches your vagina out and usually the hymen is broken and that causes a lot of pain within itself, but it all depends on how your body takes it whether it bleeds or not. in some cases, like mine, girls start their period within a day after getting their "cherry popped".

Yeah Ash has this one down, Sam. It is almost 100% guaranteed that every girl's first time will be painful.

[Underground_Network]

because it usaly hurts for girls, thier is a hymen in the vagina and when a girl first has sex that hymen will usaly break causing aka "poping the cherry" which results in bleeding and some pain.

The hymen isn't exactly inside of the vagina persay.. But yeah, sex can hurt for various reasons, but I think Ash basically told you all you need to know. Basically, the first time is painful, because your body isn't used to having this foreign object in your body, b/c a dildo/vibrator, is no replacement for the real thing, its much different (presumably, since sex for the first time apparently hurts even those who masturbate like hell). Anyways.. if my post makes no sense, stare at Ash's, b/c its 100% on the dot.

[northskater110]

tahts because the hymen is going to break causing bleeding and the vagina isnt used to haveing something inside of it.

[amandamarril]

it does always hurt it does for most but not all, its also sort of dependent on the size of the girls you know, & the guys, once again, you know.

lol I'm not sure if we're aloud to get into specifics on this site so i'll leave it at that.

[Gumleaf]

the first time you have sex (being a girl) it will probably hurt a bit as the hymen is broken. it may also hurt if the guy has a large penis because it will probably be very tight fit and also if the vagina is a very tight fit, an average size penis may hurt a bit. but otherwise it shouldn't hurt and from what i've heard, feel very good.

[Serenity]

the vagina will also bleed people

Yes several people have made that point, thanks, no need to be rude about it.

[Lifesreject]

This might sound daft but the first time i had sex i didnt bleed is this uncommon or do some people just not bleed.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

The MAJORITY if girls WILL bleed, but if you're hymen has already been teared in masturbation or even normal exercise, then you might not bleed at all. So... it was normal if you didn't bleed, just uncommon.

[Attax]

sex for the first time hurts because your body is not used to something different inside of it. it stretches your vagina out and usually the hymen is broken and that causes a lot of pain within itself, but it all depends on how your body takes it whether it bleeds or not. in some cases, like mine, girls start their period within a day after getting their "cherry popped".

there: amph said it good and clear... listen to her she knows lol:eek::D

[kovert43]

yea wat they said mostly 3 inches penatrated it so (yeah.

[lovya90]

i didnt bleed and i cant think of a time before sex that the hymen has been broken but maybe it was from a tampon or something?

[RaisingSand]

Screw the hymen idea, most doctors and medical professionals that it gets broken way before the girl is sexually active, mainly through sports and other activites.
Sex hurts the first time because esstentially the vagina is one long muscular tube, and put inserting a foreign object inside it, you're pretty much stretching it.

[eskimogal700]

the first time i had sex it didn't hurt but now that i think about it its probably because ive stuck so much stuff up there before lol

[RaisingSand]

Eskimogal, please don't post in old topics. :)

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