I'd like some help..

[nino51300]

Okay, long story coming up, but I'm honestly at the biggest road block/wall ever, I just don't know where to go.....

So instead of going into this whole huge story, I'll keep it short and sweet.

So this kid has been bothering(not to mentioned bullying) me for the past 3 years has finally gotten to me. It started in school in 5th grade, got dealt with, and ended for a short time. In 6th grade, it started again outside of school in the local scouting program an has been a pot slowly boiling over ever since. Now(7th grade), the pot is beginning to finally boil over. This whole thing is now all back in the school, the vice principal and the guidance counselor have been involved. this kid uses(quite literally) everything against me, even what he says to me and makes up lies about me, etc. Now it's in 2 places(in and outside of school), too many people are woring about it or my comfort zone and I'm about ready to kill myself(not literally). I'm at a huge roadblock just looking for a little bit of help.

In a world where almost no one cares, I come here to vent, because there's always someone with a similar situation or who's willing to help, thanks:)

[abp1999]

I've seen it from others. Good to get adults involved. Take the higher road though. Don't stoop to his level and make up roamers or any of that. I mean you could go back and give him the same treatment, but I always see it backfire. I think if you are just strong let adults help you and talk to others about it. The kid will be seen as a tool and things will work out for you.

[jayyy-lmao]

For scouts, the same thing happened to me. Tell oyur scout leaders. They are generally very understanding people. I was on scout camp once about a week after my Granny had a stroke. I started crying uncontrollablly. No-one in the scout group had know about my granny, or that i was being bullied in school. My leader fixed it all. IN scouts, bullying is not tolerated. That person will be banned from the group.

[nino51300]

^^^^^^

I've tried both of those

Scouting doesn't really care, they recognize it, but that's it. They don't try to fix anything and this guy is our leader....... I'm shocked that is even thought of of being tolerated.

[its.me.akshay]

try to ignore him... if it goes too high try to be out of his reach for a couple of days... know something dude you can bash him up if you want... but that will have some baaad consequences... so try to be calm.... involve some elders who are mutuals with you and him... and try to get it solved without a hand or weapon fight... and that going till killing.. man thats awful you know...

[qwertygirl]

I have never rally dealt with this personally, but one time when this boy was making creepy sexual comments about me in school, I told my counselor and they dealt with him very well. I know that the issue has come back a lot, but you should continue to talk to adults about this so that you can get proper help. Also, you should have some of your friends help you to, is they haven't. I know my friends don't really know how to deal with that stuff, so if that's the same with yours, make sure they understand what's happening so they can have your back! :)

[dan8854]

it gets better. it ALWAYS gets better. keep your head high and NEVER give in. I believe in you.

Practically: get adults involved.

[AuthorX303720]

Okay man, just step away for a littlet bit (meditate) and think. Just think about how life will be if you kill yourself: the bully will have satisfaction and your family will miss you. Now step back up a little bit, and ask yourself: "How can I get this person off my back?" -Laugh at there insults (this one is the best to see the bully's expression going from angry to stunned) - Hide your true feelings -Confront them verbally and tell them to stop -Be confident -Keep Faith. Good luck brother. If you have any problems, of any kind feel free to message me. Have a nice day and keep strong -Sidney

[sieg]

get really REALLY weird around the kid. think of the most messed up things to say and carry around some really weird stuff with you. simple-minded creatures fear that which they dont understand. if bad comes to worse, work on your right hook and clock him one in the carotid.

[MrDaniel2K13]

Act normal when the guy is bullying you,he'll soon stop

[wild1]

Tell him ... "I don't give a shit about anything you say but if you ever touch me I'm gonna hurt you, I promise".

[Tylermx27]

Well honestly don't let it get to yo Ik it's hard to ignore people like tht but just be the bigger person look up Jesus is up there and he's making you stronger and stronger every second don't let them tear
You down and ruin your life love your life and don't worry about wat other people think go to the hallway hold your head high and walk through it like you don't care wat people think but the more you show him how much it bothers you the more he's gonna come at you
It's like addin fuel to a fire
Your giving him fuel to ruin your life show him your better! [email protected] if you ever need advice or someone to talk to let me now!

[Biscuithead13]

I was bullied all through middle school for both my size AND presumed sexuality. Guys would hit me and I regret having not done anything about it during my middle school years, but I have learned that to make it stop, you have to not let it phase you. Bullies do things because it makes them feel empowered to rattle someone else. A lot of times people will say things but you just have to be smarter than them. When it gets down to it, you'll be a lot better off in the future than they ever will be. Once I reached highschool, I matured and even though someone occasionally says something nasty to me, I just ignore it. Nothing anybody says will scare or embaress me.

[Jaseblader]

Hy man, i had the same thing goin on, i started writing and retaliated. I you want to talk email me