AnjoDude
December 12th, 2012, 11:14 AM
Hello fellow teens (:
First, I'm not asking for advices. I just want to tell you my story and get some opinions in it. Maybe like, what should have I done? or Why shouldn't have I done?
Let's just name this girl, Kellynn. Kellynn and I were an average friends. We were classmates, we had some similarities and we were both student counsellors. So we get to see and somewhat talk to each other. But not that much. I was very confident around her, I could make the funniest the joke, I could make myself a jester and be as silly as I could. But that was before the "Mermaid Effect" hit me.
The Mermaid Effect is when a guy doesn't like a girl at first but days, weeks or years later become attracted to her. Kellynn is very attractive, smart and I could connect with her very easily. Before I liked her, one of my close friend liked her and she kinda liked him back. So there was something there. So I stayed myself that time. Until my friend kinda stopped liking her and went back to his ex (they're the perfect couple, by the way so he made the right decision). So Kellynn was kinda broken hearted. As a person who feels emphaty strongly, I couldn't let this go, I needed to comfort her. So I talked to her and she got better. After we talked, we kinda had this strong attraction. But this made me look bad.
Whenever I like a girl all of the sudden and I'm not prepared for it, I turn into an idiot. I will become super shy. I will stop being myself. I will totally become lame. And that happened. We didn't talk for a month and I think it made her wonder. I had a feeling that she wanted to know but she's that kind of girl that goes "why should I... blah blah blah". Eventually, she hated me for that. For being a huge douchebag, by not talking to her any more. For being a coward. We never talked ever since.
Normally, people will regret these kind of things but I learnt a lesson from that experience. Always be prepared and be confident at all time. And whatever I do, it affects people. Negatively or positively.
Feel free to comment. I'm open to opinions. Tell me what do you think (: I hope this would open up friends to me so when you feel like it, we should totally be friends or something.
First, I'm not asking for advices. I just want to tell you my story and get some opinions in it. Maybe like, what should have I done? or Why shouldn't have I done?
Let's just name this girl, Kellynn. Kellynn and I were an average friends. We were classmates, we had some similarities and we were both student counsellors. So we get to see and somewhat talk to each other. But not that much. I was very confident around her, I could make the funniest the joke, I could make myself a jester and be as silly as I could. But that was before the "Mermaid Effect" hit me.
The Mermaid Effect is when a guy doesn't like a girl at first but days, weeks or years later become attracted to her. Kellynn is very attractive, smart and I could connect with her very easily. Before I liked her, one of my close friend liked her and she kinda liked him back. So there was something there. So I stayed myself that time. Until my friend kinda stopped liking her and went back to his ex (they're the perfect couple, by the way so he made the right decision). So Kellynn was kinda broken hearted. As a person who feels emphaty strongly, I couldn't let this go, I needed to comfort her. So I talked to her and she got better. After we talked, we kinda had this strong attraction. But this made me look bad.
Whenever I like a girl all of the sudden and I'm not prepared for it, I turn into an idiot. I will become super shy. I will stop being myself. I will totally become lame. And that happened. We didn't talk for a month and I think it made her wonder. I had a feeling that she wanted to know but she's that kind of girl that goes "why should I... blah blah blah". Eventually, she hated me for that. For being a huge douchebag, by not talking to her any more. For being a coward. We never talked ever since.
Normally, people will regret these kind of things but I learnt a lesson from that experience. Always be prepared and be confident at all time. And whatever I do, it affects people. Negatively or positively.
Feel free to comment. I'm open to opinions. Tell me what do you think (: I hope this would open up friends to me so when you feel like it, we should totally be friends or something.