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jayyy-lmao
December 12th, 2012, 09:12 AM
Ok so im jenny,
i have 2 grannies and a grandad. my grandad is in a nursing home, my tow grannies living alone. 2 years back, my gran1 had a stroke. then my grandad had a stroke. my gran1 couldnt care for my grandad so he had to go to a nursing home. my gran1 is on 12 pills a day. gran2 is alright, being about 5-10 years younger, but shes seizing up. I feel that i got the second-hand grandad, being his youngest granchild, and all my cousins are in their thirties, bar 3, and whenever im with my grandparents, im terrified there gonna die right in front of me. so thanks for listening, its so easy to just post on the internet your problem. you guys are the best listeners.:yes:

DerBear
December 12th, 2012, 09:45 AM
I am not sure of the question. Is it that you're afraid that they are going to die in front of you?

Well, unless you are with them everyday and spend large amounts of time with them then the chances of them dying in front of you would be very slim. I mean, anything is possible but really its not likely that they will die in front of you.

I don't really know what to say other than what I've just said above. Although I will add I am sorry that they have both went through strokes, that can never be easy on anyone.

jayyy-lmao
December 12th, 2012, 09:52 AM
thanks, that is what my question was, i wasnt very clear. its nice to let these things out.

DerBear
December 12th, 2012, 11:08 PM
thanks, that is what my question was, i wasnt very clear. its nice to let these things out.

Yeah dude, I understand sometimes you just need to get thoughts or feelings off your chest and it feels better afterwards.

I hope all goes well for you. If you ever need to talk then feel free to drop me a message. :D