Friend's found gay porn on my iPod. HELP!

[Josh16]

I'm not sure where to put this so if it's in the wrong category, by all means move it. I'm slightly confused about my sexuality but i'm 85%ish sure i'm straight. I watch gay porn but that doesn't make you gay.
My problem is that i left two gay porn pictures on my ipod ages ago and today i let my friend use it. Anyway while i was gone he found it and basically went hysterical and started showing it to at least 10 people. Now the worst thing is that it is also fetish porn so now people are asking if i'm gay and obviously don't believe me when I say no. On top of that they probably think i'm a "freak" for liking that sort of "messed up" stuff. Now my whole year knows and this is starting to really get to me.
Any advice on how to deal with this would be great as I feel like my school life is ruined. I have no idea what to do or how to limit the damage. If this has happened to you how did u deal with it?

[Stryker125]

A similar thing happened to me in highschool. I was at a sleepover at a friends house and I brought my PS3. I'd left a few gay porn sites in the history and when my friends were using my PS3 they came across them. Needless to say I thought I'd never hear the end of it, but eventually it all blew over.

Just hang in there. You've already told them you're not gay, stick to your guns. Don't let it get to you. Soon enough they'll be making fun of someone else.

[Eth_94123]

I hope this all blew over for you :)

[Faolan]

That really was not okay for him to go tell every one.

[Second Chance]

Wow, your friend is a real jerk for doing that, and I definitely would not hang out with the guy in the future.

As for school, you might be given a hard time for a while which is why it is super important that you don't give any sign that those folks are getting to you. If you have a good group of friends, then you should rely on them for support. Also, depending on how close you are with your family, then it might be good to let them give you a hand so that you are not all alone with this.

Whether or not you are gay does not matter because your friend violated your privacy and shared something with others without your permission. The problem is with your friend and not with you, and don't feel bad for what you like be it gay or fetish porn because short of your friend and the other kids being God they all probably have fetishes and sexual interests, too.

[Berad]

I didn't really read your whole post to be honest. But you could always just say you downloaded it as a joke or that your friend downloaded it (as a joke or not), etc.

[SamanthaMaciel]

say it used to be ur cousins ipod

[dontfiguremeout]

Please don't bump more than 2 months. :locked: