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david_1994
October 10th, 2007, 12:16 PM
Ive red on this forum somewhere that you can be not attracted to men and or women. what happen then, do you fall in love with somebody, or if you are like this will you never fall in love with anyone, im not like this im just curiouse how it works and also mabey some people are too but dont want to talk about it or summin like that lol

Patchy
October 12th, 2007, 11:27 AM
Well its just like any other sexuality it just means you dont get attracted to women or men its quite simple really. if you fell in love with someone then u wouldnt be this type of sexuality anymore.

hope this helps!

Serenity
October 12th, 2007, 02:13 PM
Boys Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

What you're referring to is Aesexuality, which can be a number of things, in this case the lack of attraction to anyone in a romantic way. If that's the case then you just don't fall in love with anyone, unless you have a change of heart.

bbychop
October 12th, 2007, 06:52 PM
i was trying to figure out what that was called this morning to respond to this.
montel did an episode on asexuality. along with valerie's statement up there, there are many types of it. on the episode montel did there were people who just were not attracted to any member of any sex or there were people who were attracted to another sex but not in a sexual way.
it is becoming a more and more natural thing though. but by calculating age with the 1994 at the end of your name, you are probably just starting puberty and most boys are not attracted to girls or any sex until later on. just see how things go on for a few years and you never know, things may change. i know there is a website for asexuality online. maybe you should try to find it and check it out.

northskater110
October 12th, 2007, 06:55 PM
yea u guys just have to say everything possible so people cant post below u huh =] but yea, its called asexuality

Underground_Network
October 12th, 2007, 08:07 PM
Just b/c someone is not SEXUALLY attracted to guys or girls (i.e. is asexual, although there are various other things this could mean, as they could be a paraphiliac), it doesn't mean they aren't EMOTIONALLY attracted to guys or girls, and most asexuals or paraphiliacs (i.e. Albert Fish; serial killer/necrophiliac) had relationships and some even married, but did not have sex often, or never had it.

R_master
October 12th, 2007, 09:08 PM
I'm definitely no psychologist, but i have a feeling from seeing your am i gay thread that you could just be confused with your sexuality and trying to repress your homosexual thoughts/emotions. puberty can be a confusing time for a lot of people and the only way you can truly discover your sexuality is to follow your heart </corny>