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December 9th, 2012, 08:44 PM
I have friends that I can trust with some things... except with my sexuality. One reason I have for my fear is that they might tell other people. Im not exactly ready for everyone to know. I can trust my friends with little things, but this is pretty major. And my second reason is that Im afraid to lose my friends. On a daily basis they call people "fags" and things like that. One of my friends even said that "we dont need anymore gay people in this world."(Im not gay, but im afraid it wont matter to them)
-Sorry for double post, on mobile-
My worst fear is that they will judge me, make fun of me, shun me, etc. Im so lost, and its a hard situation. Help me please.
*No, my sexuality isnt hormones, im sure of it*
~Double post merged~Derri
Abyssal Echo
December 9th, 2012, 09:11 PM
I know its a big risk for you to come out. But, If they are really your friends they should be accepting of you regardless of your sexuality.
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December 9th, 2012, 09:17 PM
I'll try.
DerBear
December 10th, 2012, 09:35 AM
Honestly if they are your friends then they'll accept you either way. If they don't then can you truly call them your good friends in the first place?
I think if you do come out then they might be more supporting and if they aren't well I guess you'll need to consider if they really are your friends.
arthur-2012
December 11th, 2012, 09:17 PM
I told my BEST friends and they didnt care. But dont tell aquantejces caue they wil tell others and they will tell others and so on. Good luck
XLAM
December 14th, 2012, 02:03 AM
Hmm...
80% gay
20% straight
100% bi!
jegoss02
December 14th, 2012, 03:47 AM
I told my BEST friends and they didnt care. But dont tell aquantejces caue they wil tell others and they will tell others and so on. Good luck
Agree. Work with your innermost circle of friends. But don't broadcast it out. Though I prefer standing on the lunchroom table with a megaphone saying "I like penis and there is nothing you can do to stop me!!!" But I wouldn't worry about your close friends.
Twilly F. Sniper
December 15th, 2012, 12:13 PM
True friends accept such things, maybe occasionally bother about it is all they should do.
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