Slight problem

[Andrew.6]

So, I have a relationship and I am really happy with him but we have a slight problem... his mother is homophobic and she knows about being together and she doesn't let us go out together nor anything since she thinks he has a demon inside or something some weird mojo. How can we convince her to atleats accept that his son is like that?

It's just that sometimes I feel like tired of not being able to hang with him and I don't want to break up with him just because I got bored of the same thing/problem.

[Mike753]

The best thing I would think to do would ask him to sit down and talk to his mother. Is it a religion thing or what? How old is he?

[Andrew.6]

Well, she is very religious like a Jesus freak or something .-.

And he is 16

[Mike753]

Ah, that sucks, I know exactly how those parents are ._. Really annoying, but if she's really like that then I'm not sure what would change her thoughts :\

[FreeFall]

His mother's an ignorant, cruel and emotionless "woman of god". There's no changing her. I'm sorry to say it but that woman would rather shove a cactus up her butt before she ever accepted her son, her flesh and blood, the one she carried, being happy. She's forcing her own will and "morality" over a boy close to being an adult, she's had 16 years, she will not switch in 2 months. If there's a demon in him, it came from her, the embodiment of it, his mother.

I know you're hurting and you've every right to leave if you feel it, by all means do not stay where you will be miserable, but he may need you. With a mother so awful, he needs his boyfriend for support and comfort.

My advice, start lying and be good at it. Honesty is the best policy, but only when you're not dealing with crazy jerks.
Her knowing about his sexuality has, in a sickly twisted way, trapped him and stolen some of his freedom.
"Mom I have a test coming up and need extra help with the school work." Go somewhere you know she will never ever be.
"I think I'll join a group at school, I'll stay after to browse around." Do not get yourself caught or seen by anyone she knows. With how she is, do not assume she will not have "watchful eyes".
"I think it's time I get a job, I'll be job hunting." Don't be seen, don't be caught, do not break the lie.
Do what works, do it if you can, she's chosen her view of her son as a "demon" over reality, she's too far gone to come back with your words alone.
In fact, talking to her would probably lead her on a tirade about evils and demons and try to point them at you and then she'll go harder in keeping you a part.

I wish you and your boyfriend the best of luck!

[Andrew.6]

I have never met her but I'm really sure she is going to throw me holy water in the face when she sees me. Still I can hear her thru the phone and she seem like pretty bad ._.

I even told him to show her the movie called "Prayers for Bobby" maybe she would relate to that but she didn't wanted to see it. but yeah I guess we should start lying and what we were planing to do is wait untill summer since we are both going to collage and that way be more together I guess. But still I would really like to spend more time with him and it's really dificult. when we do go out is not like the whole day, there just mearly hours that with him feels like seconds since I don't see him that much.

But thanks really :')
Let's just see how it goes .-.