View Full Version : I'm not gay, but I think this guy likes me...
PinkFloyd
December 8th, 2012, 02:31 PM
So yeah, im not gay even the slitest bit and I repediatly find this one kid checking me out in the hallway. At first I thought it was nothing, but now i think he likes me. This could all be a misunderstanding and it's not what i think it is. Overall, i need advise. What should i do?? :confused: :eek:
Coolboi
December 8th, 2012, 02:38 PM
you must look good to have a guy like you. well don't do anything if he looks at you look back an say what you want then you'll find out an can tell him your not into guys be nice about it an he'll stop . hope that helps I'm here so hit me up if you need to talk .
Wonder.
December 8th, 2012, 03:57 PM
He probably doesn't think you're gay unless you're really flamboyant. I honestly wouldn't even bother worrying about it unless he starts hitting on you. People check out other people all the time. Take it as a compliment instead of worrying about it.
Abyssal Echo
December 8th, 2012, 03:58 PM
I wouldn't do anything. if he ever does say anything nicely tell him your not into guys
Skyhawk
December 8th, 2012, 06:51 PM
Take it as a compliment. If he asks you out or anything similar, then "I'm not into guys" is appropriate.
Sky Flower
December 8th, 2012, 07:05 PM
Yeah no need to confront it if he is just checking you out. If it gets uncomfortable for you and you are getting the impression he thinks you are gay, or if he tries to make a move then just let him know you aren't really interested.
I'd be flattered though
Lost in the Echo
December 8th, 2012, 08:44 PM
Yeah, I don't think this is anything serious.
He's probably just curious, so that's probably why he was checking you out.
If he starts flirting with you though, then just tell him you're not interested, because you're straight.
alexkun
December 11th, 2012, 10:24 PM
i think you should wait until he talks to you. If he doesn't, just let it go. Its not like he is going to kiss you or grab your butt without your permission if you don't talk to him...
..its up to you dude, just be nice to him ok?. :D
PinkFloyd
December 12th, 2012, 12:27 AM
i think you should wait until he talks to you. If he doesn't, just let it go. Its not like he is going to kiss you or grab your butt without your permission if you don't talk to him...
..its up to you dude, just be nice to him ok?. :D
Oh yeah, I would definately be nice if he asked me out or something. Im a realy tolerant guy. :)
Twilly F. Sniper
December 15th, 2012, 12:29 PM
Just do as normal. I think also that could be taken as a compliment like Rogue said.
Troy35216
December 15th, 2012, 12:51 PM
i don't understand. why do you have to do anything? what do you do when you're being checked out by a girl that you aren't interested in? just do the same thing.
Extreme586
December 16th, 2012, 02:15 AM
Be happy that someone is probably attracted to you! If he asks you out or flirts with you to where it makes you uncomfortable, make sure you let him down gently, it's a hard enough world for us as it is.
Jakejjj
December 17th, 2012, 12:13 AM
Try going up to him and asking him and talking to him about it maybe he will stop
Magnus Bane
December 22nd, 2012, 08:40 PM
i would talk to him if i were you ask him and then tell him you don't feel that way. very nicelythough and then ask if you could be friends or something
Mysterious Skin
December 23rd, 2012, 12:13 AM
To avoid embarrassment for the both of you, i suggest that you tell him straight up that you're not into guys. Simple as that.
chrisawesome
December 23rd, 2012, 04:53 AM
Depends how attractive that guy is. There are a few hot guys in school that straight guys like too.
Eth_94123
March 8th, 2013, 05:16 PM
So yeah, im not gay even the slitest bit and I repediatly find this one kid checking me out in the hallway. At first I thought it was nothing, but now i think he likes me. This could all be a misunderstanding and it's not what i think it is. Overall, i need advise. What should i do?? :confused: :eek:
Well I would say just ignore it :) but if he tries anything then that is when you make it clear that your are not gay and definitely not interest!
redneckgal
March 8th, 2013, 06:17 PM
You need not do anything. He may just be a friendly guy or just may want to try get to know you. Either way I wouldn't worry. If he were to approach you as a gay person all you need do is to tell him that you are not gay or curious and that should take care of that.
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