View Full Version : A guys ejaculation during sex
reena94
December 8th, 2012, 11:56 AM
I have not had sex yet, but may well soon do just that.
I am definitely sure I dont want the guy to ejaculate inside of my vagina...for reasons too obvious. But that leaves on my body, on my face or in my mouth. Which is the best?
Body might get sticky, face will get messy and mouth might taste bad.
Also, I have seen some videos to educate myself on this, and it seems like I got the meaning of ejaculating in mouth wrong...in the videos it always shows the guy ejaculating from a far, and not with his penis inside the girls mouth. Some clarifications on this will help too.
ReginaGeorge
December 8th, 2012, 12:12 PM
The best place is in the condom to prevent "pre-cum" getting inside you. Just because a guy doesn't ejaculate in you, doesn't mean there you can't get pregnant, and you can also get carried away very easily and accidentally not pull out in time, therefore ejaculating in you. This can also carry STD's, so your best bet is using a condom.
If you like the idea of it going on you but not in you, still wear a condom, but take it off after you know it's not going back inside, and then let him do his thing where you want it. And if you do want to go at it again, use a new condom. You cannot reuse condoms. I recommend you talk to him about researching how to safely take off a condom, ensuring nothing gets out.
If you don't want it, but are just saying this because you feel like you have to, tell him you don't want to. Plain and simple. You guys will find things you like and experiment with them once you're more comfortable with each other and the experience.
It's different for each guy, some might ejaculate at a higher speed and be able to 'shoot' it further, other guys can't so they need to be closer. I wouldn't recommend having in down your throat (not literally) while he ejaculates because if it's too fast for you, you could easily choke on it. If you want it in your mouth, the best bet is outside but close to your mouth.
Hope this helps. Make sure you talk it all out with him if you decide to get it awn. :)
Taryn98
December 8th, 2012, 12:25 PM
I agree with Jess. Use a condom and then you don't have to worry about where it goes. If you want him to shoot it somewhere on you, just pick. If you don't like it, don't do it again. If he shoots in your mouth and you swallow, it's less mess. You might not like the taste, some girls don't. I like it actually. If he shoots on your body, it's a little messy but it can still be fun and a turn on, but that's up to you.
Cassygurl13
December 8th, 2012, 12:58 PM
Def use a condom, like they're saying. But it's all preference. I like it on the face and boobs, but like to swallow too - just experiment!
britt69
December 26th, 2012, 04:13 PM
Def use a condom, like they're saying. But it's all preference. I like it on the face and boobs, but like to swallow too - just experiment!
yeah i agree too, dont like the hum cumming inside me but i love it in my boobs! LOL:whoops:
anyone50
December 26th, 2012, 04:34 PM
I'm going with using the condom if it's your first few times and your not sure how long your going to be with the guy not to mention the STD you could catch. As far as the video you have seenwhat you have seen is not swallowing like which is normally done during oral sex but whats called a facial where he shoots his cum all over your face and shoulders. I wouldn't recomended this for your first BJ. If you don't want it on you or swallow it have a tissue ready and tell him before hand. most guys will honor your wishes
Jen Jones
December 26th, 2012, 10:43 PM
Why dont you just get him to cum inside the condom?
Myxox
December 17th, 2013, 11:31 PM
My gf likes me to shoot on her stomach since it's easy to clean up. But if you want to be safe use a condom.
Mich015
December 18th, 2013, 01:04 AM
Definitely go with the condom but when he is going to cum he can "put the cum" where ever you want it lol. I dont recommend the facial, ive done it and its gross and degrading and if it gets in your eyes... it burns, it really sucks.. i like it on my boobs, on my stomach, or in my mouth. I suggest swallowing at least once its pretty good. Its what i prefer, its like my reward for all the hard work lol. And no he doesnt need to aim an shoot it in your mouth, just sick him.
Good luck hun!
Harley Quinn
December 18th, 2013, 06:41 AM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked:
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