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giles2603
December 8th, 2012, 08:41 AM
My friends keep telling me I should try drugs and smoking but I don't really want to. Should I try it and see what's it like? I dunno what to do :/ cheers

niceguy44
December 8th, 2012, 08:50 AM
don't do it giles.

Loreley
December 8th, 2012, 08:56 AM
Don't do it. Everyone thinks that if they try once, there's no problem. But it's not true, you try once, and after you want to do this again and again.

Mortal Coil
December 8th, 2012, 09:10 AM
If you're posting on here, you obviously are conflicted about this. And drugs are one of those things where if you have any doubt in your mind at all, it's best not to. So I vote no. Stand your ground. Drugs fuck you up. They ruin lives. Maybe not your life in particular but why take the chance?

Digital
December 8th, 2012, 04:50 PM
I'm in a group of friends they mostly do weed when were outside chillinh,
but sometimes XTC too, and they told me to try it too but i've never done it and i never will.
If you don't want to do it, don't. I've said no everytime they asked and i will continue.
You should do too.

Ryhanna
December 8th, 2012, 05:44 PM
If you don't want to, don't. Real friends don't pressure you into something you don't want to do.

ECSTASY
December 8th, 2012, 06:21 PM
don't let them ruin your life...
just say NO
they are not your real friends .

Skyhawk
December 8th, 2012, 06:54 PM
You might want to make new friends if your current ones are pressuring you to do drugs/smoke.

My grandmother is fubar from smoking, trust me. Don't do it.

Elysium
December 8th, 2012, 07:15 PM
Have you ever heard of a little thing called peer pressure and not to give into it? Yeah, prime example. Don't do it.

Sky Flower
December 8th, 2012, 07:21 PM
Probably not worth trying them, especially if you are only doing it to appease them

DerBear
December 8th, 2012, 07:24 PM
Since you are in doubt of doing it in the first place then I'd suggest not doing it. Plus I mean why bother, it just leads to health problems or addictions in later life.

Stryker125
December 8th, 2012, 08:22 PM
If you don't want to do it, don't do it. Simple as that. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you're not completely comfortable with.

Lost in the Echo
December 8th, 2012, 08:27 PM
No, don't do it.
You said you don't want to, so don't.
Don't get pressured into doing something you don't want to do, if you don't want to do something, then simply don't do it.
It's your decision.

lukey1994
December 8th, 2012, 09:58 PM
Defo nope!!!

Hungman
December 8th, 2012, 10:13 PM
if you dont want to do it, then dont do it. Its always best to make an informed decision so if your still unsure RESEARCH THOROUGHLY every aspect of the drug you are considering then make an informed decision on if you want to or not. If you have any history of mental illness i would also advise against it.

nutjob
December 9th, 2012, 01:11 AM
Don't give in to peer pressure. If you don't want to do it, don't. You'll regret it later if you do.

chiliguy
December 9th, 2012, 01:59 PM
Don't do it my friend. Just don't..!

Aajj333
December 10th, 2012, 11:01 PM
No drugs kills you

Aaron Y
December 10th, 2012, 11:03 PM
Please don't!! There is no return if u have stepped into it

CharlieFinley
December 13th, 2012, 03:56 AM
Think of something a couple of "stages" harder than what they do. For instance, if they're into weed, a bit harder than that would be cocaine. Ask them to try cocaine. They'd say hell no. Tell them they should stop asking you to smoke. Hope they get the message.

Nellerin
December 13th, 2012, 07:53 PM
My friends keep telling me I should try drugs and smoking but I don't really want to. Should I try it and see what's it like? I dunno what to do :/ cheers

Don't do it.

If you don't wanna then do not do it.

If you ever do want to do anything, as a rule of thumb, NEVER DO ANYTHING OTHER THAN WEED. (But I still suggest not even doing weed there is no reason to do so.)

tubanic
December 16th, 2012, 01:55 PM
Don't do it. Even if you just try once, and then draw a clear line, if you go through a bad time later in life, you could begin to crave that relief you got when you were a teenager, and you could be addicted before you take it a lot.
Report this to a teacher at school if they keep doing it, or if they start to force you to do something you don't want to.

HUSTLEMAN
December 16th, 2012, 02:31 PM
Retain your purity in the form of abstinence.

Steve Jobs
December 18th, 2012, 05:22 AM
First thing you have to ask yourself. Are you really lacking something in your life which you believe can be fixed by this substance?
If you're feeling fulfilled, why should you make your life depend on one more thing to keep you stable. That's what I asked myself, and the only conclusion I found was to pay money, give up time and potentially (and I say this because Science debates to no end) health problems.

In the end I concluded it wasn't something worth my time at all, so I gave it up for good.

Please don't!! There is no return if u have stepped into it

Who said?

Hungman
December 18th, 2012, 07:45 AM
First thing you have to ask yourself. Are you really lacking something in your life which you believe can be fixed by this substance?
If you're feeling fulfilled, why should you make your life depend on one more thing to keep you stable. That's what I asked myself, and the only conclusion I found was to pay money, give up time and potentially (and I say this because Science debates to no end) health problems.

In the end I concluded it wasn't something worth my time at all, so I gave it up for good.



Who said?

not all people use recreational drugs to escape reality, there are many out there using it to enhance reality aka have a little fun once in a while. Anything in moderation isnt harmful, just have to ask yourself if you will be able to moderate it. Depending what drug, and the frequency of usage, "science debates to no end" there are negligible negative side effects.

dan8854
December 18th, 2012, 07:53 AM
Don't do it! Be strong and take the narrow path. Never do things you'll regret later :)

anyone50
December 27th, 2012, 11:01 AM
you pretty much answered you own question when you say you don't really want to. If your friends can't accept you the way you are maybe it's time to seek out some new friends

qwertygirl
December 27th, 2012, 12:15 PM
Pleaseee don't try drugs, especially not smoking too. Even if it's "just weed", you may find yourself wanting to explore other drugs, which is why weed is so dangerous. I honestly hate drugs because they ruin you. I hope that you can find some friends that support whatever decision you make. And in this case, there IS a right decision.

sieg
December 29th, 2012, 02:45 AM
well, you never if you don't try it right? my dads been smoking a solid 38 years and he's had a good life!

CharlieFinley
December 29th, 2012, 03:37 AM
well, you never if you don't try it right? my dads been smoking a solid 38 years and he's had a good life!

That's the worst advice I've heard all day.

LiamShelley96
December 29th, 2012, 03:44 AM
come on people, 'drugs' that could count for alot of things, like marijuana there really is no harm with it. but you'd be more worried about heaver ones and still, more people die of overdose from prescription drugs than every illicit drug combined

unusedaccount
January 15th, 2013, 06:18 PM
My friends keep telling me I should try drugs and smoking but I don't really want to. Should I try it and see what's it like? I dunno what to do :/ cheers

If you don't want to do it, then don't. It's your body, and your in control of what you put in it, not your friends.

CharlieHorse
January 15th, 2013, 06:19 PM
Long story short.
Drugs will fuck you up permanently.
Don't even think about trying them.

ULeon
January 28th, 2013, 11:56 PM
if you feel uncomfortable, or just don't want to... don't do it
if they really are your friends they will respect that and wont force you to do anything that you don't want to do..

somegirl
January 29th, 2013, 12:53 AM
If they keep pressuring you by trying to talk you into it, it's time to find new friends. Find some who like doing all the same things that you like.

justinglives
January 29th, 2013, 04:02 AM
if you don't want to do it and they're telling you to do it...... dude run the other way because they're not real friends

VictoriaGotaSecret
January 29th, 2013, 08:23 AM
Dont do it if you don't want to

Kriss41
January 29th, 2013, 02:59 PM
Don't do it.
If you have to, find new friends. Drugs will ruin your life. They don't see it but their lives are going to be ruined.

Kirino Kousaka
February 4th, 2013, 05:58 AM
don't do it, I tried it on Friday, and only once, about half with one friend as I wanted to try it and yesterday I smoked a half and a full at 3AM, and I gradually want more, it will go from one to more and I know im in for a lot of trouble :/

MattsyPad
February 4th, 2013, 04:25 PM
Smoking weed is fine.

MattsyPad
February 4th, 2013, 04:28 PM
don't do it, I tried it on Friday, and only once, about half with one friend as I wanted to try it and yesterday I smoked a half and a full at 3AM, and I gradually want more, it will go from one to more and I know im in for a lot of trouble :/

I've been smoking cigarettes off and on for 3 years and frequently throughout the last 4 months. I never want more. I want a cigarette, I don't need a cigarette. It's not even physically possible to be addicted off one cigarette. You're just physiological addicted.

Jack230
May 1st, 2013, 03:05 PM
Don't destroy your life with these things :(

MrMundane
May 2nd, 2013, 11:09 PM
It's your choice, don't let others make them for you. Personally, I would advise against it if you are happy.

Magus
May 3rd, 2013, 12:10 AM
Never given to peer pressure. If you want to try it, try it at your own will and pace.

darkdude41
May 3rd, 2013, 05:26 PM
dont do these things at least until you're an adult. Wait until your brain has developed for the most part. Even then, its better to stay away from everything except the occasional drink or toke

endorfin
May 6th, 2013, 06:06 PM
I wouldn't take advise from people online regarding drug usage. Do your own research and also don't be afraid to say no. It's a common misconception that drug users are pushy, trying to get you on drugs, usually they're just being courteous if they give or offer you anything(drugs aren't free you know).

Though a veteran drug user I'd only recommend psychedelics(including cannabis) to anyone asking what is safe. Hard drugs require knowledge and willpower to manage, something the general populace lacks. The thing you have to remember with drugs is that you are always you. Drugs do not change you, you change yourself.

Brellen
May 15th, 2013, 04:03 AM
Don't do ANYTHING you don't wan't to do or feel uncomfortable with. Don't ever let anyone pressure you into doing something you dont want to do.

LunarScorpio
May 17th, 2013, 01:46 PM
No, no ,no

I know people who did get addicted to drugs. Lifes were over at 15. They were expelled from school and disapperaed. Please do not do it EVER

Croconaw
May 17th, 2013, 02:17 PM
Don't do it! They can't be telling you what to do either.

Lofiel
May 17th, 2013, 03:14 PM
I live a great life with my drug usage.

Does that mean you can do drugs and live a good life? Maybe, maybe not.

If you don't think you could, then don't. My friends did not make my choices!!!

Lisa Monroe
May 18th, 2013, 08:54 PM
im telling you dont do it. earlier this week at my school a kid over dosed on cocaine in english class while the teacher was out of the room. drugs ruin your life. dont smoke either. dont listen to the people who tell you marijuana is perfectly healthy because it isnt

Lofiel
May 19th, 2013, 04:15 PM
im telling you dont do it. earlier this week at my school a kid over dosed on cocaine in english class while the teacher was out of the room. drugs ruin your life. dont smoke either. dont listen to the people who tell you marijuana is perfectly healthy because it isnt "Herp derp a kid overdosed on cocaine in a class room, all drugs are bad"

Are you kidding me, because of some one abusing cocaine and over dosing on school grounds you're saying marijuana will ruin your life?

I guess the fact I get high honors and will graduate high school to attend a provincial university means nothing, even though I've smoked marijuana for four years.

"That's like, your opinion man."

ECSTASY
May 20th, 2013, 09:45 AM
Dont do it dude. Drugs may be cool at first but it will destroy your life ...

Twilly F. Sniper
May 20th, 2013, 07:32 PM
My friends keep telling me I should try drugs and smoking but I don't really want to. Should I try it and see what's it like? I dunno what to do :/ cheers

Don't. Bad Idea, and you can't be forced to do ANYTHING!

GigglyAbby
May 25th, 2013, 01:08 PM
I'm curious what you decided to do since you asked about this last year. But this is a good thread for others in your shoes.

I too agree that you may want to look for different friends. When you have strong convictions on something like you did by leaning towards no -- it's best to keep them because doing so makes you a stronger person and less of a pushover.....

alexxpearson
May 25th, 2013, 03:22 PM
if you don't want to then don't. don't do anyting just cause others are telling you to, it's up to you.

justin 13
May 29th, 2013, 11:46 AM
Dont do it dude.

xXl0sth0peXx
May 29th, 2013, 03:12 PM
Please do not post in threads older than 2 months. :locked: