liking people who aren't gay?

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

i like a few of the guys at my school but none of them are gay. it really sucks that im still living as and known as a guy.

i dont know how to ask, but what should i do?

[joshwinston]

You should get to know them, and then just ask them.

[danny7]

know how you feel.. with me it's my best friend and he is straight, so if I ask him, I am scared it might ruin our relationship.. but maybe on your case it's different.. you decide

[ImCoolBeans]

Tread lightly when dealing with a situation like this. Whether somebody is open/accepting or not he or she may take offense if their sexuality has been questioned. If you feel confident enough in asking them then by all means go ahead. It's never easy having a "straight crush", but it's unfortunately it's usually a part being non-heterosexual. Play it by ear and see how things play out. If you make a quick, or rash decision then things may not go very smoothly.

[teen.jpg]

I have a straight crush, and its torture for the mind and the heart. But he gives off those "gaydar signals" (lol) and I'll damn sure jump at any chances I get...

[DepartInSecret]

I am in the same boat as you Victoria. No one at my school is gay, well openly. So all of my crushes are straight. :( I decided a while ago then rather ask them out, because you know they are straight, I just try to ignore my thing for them, well him really.
I know it really does suck...

[teen.jpg]

It's pretty hard to ignore your feelings, and they will most likely turn down your advances. There is almost no win in the situation.

[ULeon]

I am straight, i would not go out with another guy, ever. I will hang out with you and everything but dating wise..sorry but no...I have some gay friends, one has asked me out before, but honestly it was no big deal, it was actually harder for me to say no (because i care for him as a brother, and i did not want our friendship to change), than for him to ask me out. i was the first person he came out to (first one he told). I did not go out with him, but i supported him in what ever way i could. We even got closer some how, idk, i guess me knowing that he liked men and him knowing that i knew just made us more relaxed and comprehensive. Anyway, point of the story, don't focus much on your fears of the things that could go wrong, if they are your friends and you like them, go ahead tell them, they might not like you back, but maybe they do, or maybe they would not mind experimenting. Every one runs the risk of getting rejected by some one whether you be gay, straight, or bi. every one will make opinions about you, but the only one that should matter is your own. There for if it feels right, just go for it.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

I have a crush that I'm 99.9 repeating percent sure that he's straight, what I did is just ignore sexual urge for him, and went on. Sure, I mistakenly asked the question about asking straight guys out on a forum post, but I'm moving on trying to find the "right people" that I know like me as much as I like them. Honestly, I think it's in your best interest to move on to people that are definitely not straight.

[VictoriaGotaSecret]

Another thing...

These are people I don't hang out with or talk to

[chrisawesome]

I dont know what to say. I would like to know also. There are some really hot guys at my school that arent gay or bi. So I see where your coming from.

Just try and be friends with them and maybe you will get to jack him off if your really good friends.

(By the way I have alot of hot friends if you know what I mean)